Hey guys I find myself pretty deep in a shitty situation here,

I am currently seeing this girl, we go out for a few dates (including Valentines together), just casual like once or twice per month because we are both busy. To set my intention clear I do escalate some kino and intermittently spice things up with some romantic or small dates when we don't really go out, so she know that I am into her (just not propose yet) and also not like too scared to propose to her and she receives it really well.

However recently she is flaking on me, she delayed or called off 3 dates with me, one is because she is sick (which I did paid her a visit and she was bed ridden), the other two with pretty solid reasons that she has way too much work (my last gf was also like that and we broke up).

So my dilemma is that I can't decide whether i should sack her entirely and go on with other games, which would result in her drifting away and I throw all my effort away. David DeAngelo also said that only wuss gives up at the first sign of resistance.

Or I should just follow my heart and continue chasing her and hoping for a better ending when she is less busy, but risk sabotaging the frame that I am not clingy or dependent on her emotionally.

Guys this is like my game deciding moment, please help me set this straight. Your opinion is much needed.

Cheers

i know exactly how you feel

what i think you should do is stop expecting stuff from this girl but still go out with her

in the meantime go out and try to meet other girls, that's what DDA would advise you to do anyways

cheers

Yea im going out regularly with our bros here sarging as well, just trying to reason this out and act in the most rational way, trying to get my head around this