Okay so I'm pretty good naturally with women up untill it matters. See here is my problem I'll have a girl I like (co-worker, went to classes with) and 80 percent of the time she'll flirt with me hard. I.e. after coming back from vacation "11 tonight after I'm done RAing you should come up I really missed you". So now I;m working right, or interning rather, and I still can't close. I'm desperate for advice, and did a search on PUA forums, and figured if anyone would know it would be you guys.

So help me out, how do you, after she flirts, and you have the rapport, how do you finally ask her out, and be sort of playfull, nonchalant about it? Do you say let's do dinner I just don't know. As this is the only thing standing in my way, and really the only important thing, help a bro out, give me some advice.

If SHES asking to meet you what is the problem?

That was a diffrent type, a few month ago, I was just using that to illustrate, that game wise I'm good except for when I actually have to ask the person out, and say, he grad a dinner of what ever. If she does that I'm good and it happens often enough, but when ever it is the type of girl, I have to add that extra last move, for what ever reason I'm dumfounded.

just remember, going for the kiss will always feel unnatural if you don't kino escalate, make sure you do that and have it cocky and funny, by the end of the night just give yourself the opportunity to be near her and go for the kiss


it really gets easier after you get experienced in this, it's no biggie really, it's just, you'll keep going till you feel you can go after it, then you magically close


let me tell you tho, a world full of women is a big world, and there's no way in hell that anything's closed just because you've kissed her

just be playful and explore her, you won't believe how far you can go by being that way, you'll understand how easy it is for you to actually fuck a girl on the first date, any lmr just say it'll be fine and if she really wants you to stop, back and say you think it's going too fast, got to go, then call her next day and yeah good luck from there, just tossin ideas, so many things can be done

cheers