Hey guys whats up?? First of all, thanks for all your advise and opinions it is greatly appreciated. I have yet some more questions..lol. Well, I don't know if you read my other post titled "need advise on this chick" but I took your advise and cancelled my plans with her for Friday night since she has been flaking on me lately. I went out with a new chick I met last night and had a great time : ) but chick A found out that I went on a date with chick B, now she is asking me all kinds of questions like "How was it?", "Whats her name?", "Is there going to be a second date?". I have given her zero info about this other chick because for starters I don't think it's really any of her business. I would however like to hook up with chick A also, so how should I respond to her questions about my dates and what should I do next??

Just the other day this chick was giving me the "I just am not ready", "I think we need to start out as friends and let me adjust". This would make a whole lot more since if you read my other post..lol, I don't know how to attach it to this post, thats why I didn't do it haha. Anyways, I need some advise agian, thanks in advance guys!!

What do you think you should do? What information do you want to convey to her? Think about how this can be applied to all women and not just this one.

What are the next steps?

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Well, I'm really not sure how to handle this....I mean, now I think she is jealous because she knows that I'm dating other woman but I don't know how to use this to my advantage. I don't want to ask her out directly because that is AFC and I don't want to go down that road..lol. I don't want her to get pissed off and just say f*ck you!

I put this in the other thread. Your next steps are to continue on with what you are doing, dating other people.

If you do not, you will finally 'get' her and you will instantly smother her. At that point, she will be gone forever.

By this point, you should have decreased the amount of texts you send her. one for everyone of her two.. If she asks why, just say you have been busy.

Mention that you two should hang out somtime. Let her make the first offer, decline (you are busy), and say 'I am going to be here, come join me.'

If you really want to take it over the top, have someone call you while you are with her. Ignore the phone call. If she mentions the call, tell her you are not a slave to your phone. This will set up the thought that there will be times that you are not available. To her or anyone else.

During this time, kino escalate. A lot. Have a great time. Do not try to kiss her and do not allow her to kiss you. (this may be tempting but DO NOT)

Now the important part. Do not bounce to another event with her. Cut the evening short. You're a busy guy. When you leave, again, do not allow her to kiss you or you kiss her. Tell her it was fun and you should do it again.

It is a done deal after that. Bring her over for a movie again. Sit on the other side of the couch and make her come to you. (Either by her moving herself or you telling her to come here (I would suggest just holding out your hand and then pulling her towards you)

Tell us how it goes.

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Alright, cool! Thanks for the help man. I cancelled our plans for Friday, I just said something came up, cause actually it has. I have another date with the other chick I went out with yesterday : ) I did not tell the first chick anything other than I had other plans, so I'll try to keep that under wraps. She texted me this morning with "So what are you ditching me Friday for?", I said that something came up thats all but we should hang out soon. We'll see what happens next, I'll wait until she texts me, I know she will not invite me to go anywhere because she never does the inviting, it's always me asking her...So if she doesn't invite me should I ask her to tag along with me somewhere or should I freeze her out until she does ask me somewhere? Also, if I do freeze her out and she texts/calls with "Are you mad at me, did I do something wrong?", what should I say??

Nevermind the question about what I should tell her about me not talking to her much "I'm busy", got it..lol.

firebird, it's the jealousy factor that has been flipped in her. That's why she's coming after you now. You have to keep that up, dating other people, to keep that attraction going. Also, you need to show her, in front of her eyes, that you are the leader of men. When you are out together, you control the situations. You lead her. You lead any men that may interact with you two.

You are apparently on the right track right now with this woman. DON'T give her all the info on your plans either. Just tell her you will be at whatever place at whatever time having FUN and that she needs to join you. Don't ask her to join. Tell her to be there.

All you tell chick A is that you and B went out and you enjoyed the company of your friend chick B. That you aren't involved in any type of relationship with either of them, that you like to go out and enjoy the company and fun with your chick friends and you weren't looking to get too invloved with anyone, but you did have a good time and you would do it again. Tell chick A since you and her are both looking to to enjoy the company of "friends" and if she was so curious about you and your dating you will take her out for a little fun and excitement too when you can fit it in to your busy weekly schedule.

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If you tell chick A that chick B is just a friend, you'll kill what's going on. She will have no reason to be jealous. Therefore your no longer as valuable to her.

Thanks for the help guys, I got a text from her when I was about to hit the gym. I made a little small talk and said we should hangout soon and said bye. I haven't heard from her since, I'll wait until she calls/texts me and say I'm going to do whatever and she needs to be there and see what happens.

She told one of my friends that she likes me but she doesn't want a boyfriend right now because her and the guy she was dating, were dating for like 3 years. We'll see what happens, I think jealousy will eat her up after awhile.

If she really does have any solid interest in you, then yes you're right.

So that chick I have been talking about texted me last night when I was watching the world series (how pathetic did the rockies look..lol) anyways she said that she can't help but still see me as like a brother to her since she has known me for so long and said "theres nothing wrong with being friends right?".

So I guess thats the end of the road for that deal..lol. Time to focus my attention on the other chicks : )

Exactly.