I just joined the forum after reading the countless threads on being a PUA. Thanks for all the help guys! I've been talking with this girl on and off for about two weeks, but I was hoping to start a thread based solely on text conversations.

I'm trying to keep this girl interested by texting her here and there while being short, funny, and flirty. Can we start a thread on openers, closers, and etc. on what to say to a girl when having text conversations. I'll start off first.

Instead of just saying whats up, what else can you say to start up a convo?

Me: "Hey you? Staying out of trouble? : )"

how would I follow up with that? or does anybody have any suggestions to add? I hope to make this a big thread to look back on like the "COLLECTION OF PUA OPENERS" instead make this a TEXTING-ONLY conversation thread. Thanks guys!

Small story, I met her while I was out during the job, apparently she does full-time work/full-time school. We were supposed to hang out last night and she bailed on me only saying "Im so sick". She texts me in the morning. So my first text back is 5 hrs later in the afternoon.

Her: "Heyy"

Me: Hey whats up? How have you been feeling??

Her: "Hey! Im so sorry about last night. I was insanely drunk...and blacked out! It was awful and I threw up all night...my parents had to pick me up, lol. Sorry I didnt even get to meet up with you!

Me: It seems like we never have luck hanging out..

Her: dont say that. when schools over ill have a lot more free time! its just hard to right now! dont be mad..

Me: danng you must've had a good time out yesterday

Her: "I didnt..i think i was extremely dehydrated. my mom thought i had alcohol poisoning. i shouldve met up with you! You mightve kept me in line!

Me: so sorry..well we're 0 for 3 right now hanging out..just like joey shooting last night lol "reference to final four game"

Her: hahah ouch. im gonna tell joey you said that!

Me: lol well im not hatin...just bummed over you and our school losing

her: haha. im kidding, idk joey, lol. and me too, im sorry we WILL hang...its just hard to with school and work!

me: no big deal...but if you can pencil me in that'd be great

Her: i will i will. we'll have to eat at mexico soon!


So now I'm planning not to text her back for another couple days. And I was planning on saying what I said in the first post, referencing to her being drunk. Let me know what I should say for my next convo starter.

just to let you know there is a huge thread in the routines sub forum with texting.. big time..

found it thanks man...mod please lock topic..i'll make a seperate new thread on a different subject