So I have this cute girl in one of my classes. I did everything right: kino, flirting , eye contact, building rapport. I even talk about sex with her. But then out of no were she says my least favorite words. "your my new bestfriend"! What the hell did I do wrong.[/list]

did you ever break repoire or get her to see you outside of class?

No. Could you give me some detail how to do that?

Well it sounds like you were just to nice man. If you were talking about sex, then why didnt you follow up the conversation with something like

'Speaking of things that are hot and keep me up at night, you don't like coffee do you?"

or anything that demonstrates your not a pussy . Now I don't think you are but look at it from her perspective.

"That cute guy in class talked to me again today. We talked about sex, I made eye contact, there was some playful touching, why won't he ask me out?"

I say that the next opportunity you get ask her to do something outside of class. She's either gunna say yes or shes gunna say no and neither is a bad option. If she says no, then now you know that you built to much comfort and not enough attraction, and you should take that as a learning lesson for future targets. If she says yes, then you were doing everything right and just need to learn to pull the trigger faster. I'm curious to see how this plays out, let me know if she agrees to a date and then lets work from there.

Alrite Thanx bro. She's leavin 2 Florida Monday and was beggin 2 SPAM me all day because she said she wanted 2 see my face again before she leaves(didn't have my webcam tho) but when she gets back I will ask.

And one more question....how do you ask a women to be your girlfriend. Just curious.

lol I am the wrong person to ask about that but honesty and confidence are always highly valued. If I were to do it I would just come right out with it but there are so many other factor involved with something like that. Whose the lucky lady?

oh man, isn't it obvious?

she likes you and wants to feel your shit, spend some good time with ya


organize something and make sure there's somewhere you can be with her after where you two can be alone and have some fun

after that all you gotta do is enjoy yourself and give her a good time