| Hey guys, I really need help. After having learned about pua 2 years ago, I have experienced moderate success after starting uni 6 months ago.
Basically, it has helped me to understand how flirting works since I was a complete loser as far as that was concerned. Whenever I got into the zone I was able to get some success yet in these 6 months I only made out with two girls.
It may sound silly, but those two girls gave me a lot of confidence. I thought "HA! THE PENNY HAS DROPPED!" I had finally figured out how to use pickup art to get girls. However, every time I've been out since, whether to a club or a pub, I didn't get ANYWHERE. I just could not meet any girls who showed any interest. Hell, I became excellent at reading interest in general (playing with hair, touching, body dirction, etc), but I could not read any interest from any girl for me! And slowly, but surely, I would get depressed by the end of every night.
Alcohol-induced crying on the streets of Glasgow at 4 am in the morning became common.
Then there is my selfimage. I always believed I was slightly above average looking, yet the fact that I don't seem to be getting anywhere really knocks my confidence down. And when I see guys who are scrawnier, shorter, or uglier (shallow, I know) making out with 2 or 3 girls a night, well, it knocks my confidence down even more. However, at the same time, it makes me realize that looks don't have that much to do with it, and it must be a game thing if even THEY get somewhere.
So here I am guys. I felt like I was super confident when I started uni. I talked to girls, flirted a lot, I felt very alpha. But as time went by, I began losing focus and now every time I go out with my crowd and don't get somewhere with any girl, I get really depressed. I need help. Can someone restore my frame? Lead me in the right direction?
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