| I've developed this list of the 10 qualities that I think all guys should develop if they want to be innatevely attractive to women:
1. Confidence
Girls love confident guys. The way you talk and the way you carry yourself has to scream “I own this place.” Girls do not want a guy who is unsure of himself. Be a man. Gorgeous girls will notice and instantly have a positive subconscious response to you.
2. Composure
Being unable to compose yourself and control your emotions is going to prevent you from living the life you want. When you remain emotionally unaffected by outside influences, especially an attractive girl, she will experience an unexplainable internal confusion. The reason for this is because she is used to having guys fall for her emotionally before even putting forth any effort. She will dismiss these other guys as being ordinary and work towards winning the approval of the guy who is emotionally unaffected (you).
3. Unpredictability
Unpredictability alone will make you stand far above the rest because she never knows what you are going to do next. Always keep her guessing. This serves 2 purposes: 1) to her, this is adventurous and exciting, and 2) when she’s trying to predict your next move, you will constantly be on her mind. Nice.
4. Fun/Funny
Girls just want to have fun. Don’t take things so seriously. Have a sense of humor, show her a good time and make her laugh. If you can make a girl laugh, you can make a girl sleep with you. Laughter is the best seduction.
5. Leadership
There’s a reason Fidel Castro, Gene Simmons and Wilt Chamberlain have each individually slept with over 4,000 girls. It is because they possess leadership. Girls naturally want to be led. Be a cause in the world, not an effect. Make things happen.
6. Vulnerability
This may seem counterintuitive, but showing a glimpse of your softer side sometimes can be very effective at making a girl fall for you. Even Superman had his kryptonite.
7. Positivity
Positivity builds attraction and negativity destroys it. Every successful person in history has been a positive thinker. If you want to become successful at dating, you have to learn from past mistakes and apply them to your present circumstances. Negative thinkers blame their past for their present failures. Be positive and you will succeed.
8. Understanding
Before you can get inside a girl’s pants, you have to get inside a girl’s head. Make sure you understand her as a person. Listen to her and take note of the little things. Little things add up to make big differences.
9. Style
DO’s:
- Groom yourself. Show that you have respect for yourself.
- Stay current and up to date.
- Dress in a way that expresses that you “get it.” Women pay a lot of attention to subtle communication.
DON’T’S:
- Dress like a geek.
- Dress as if you are from the 90’s.
- Stand out too much.
- Look dirty.
- Try too hard.
10. Deserving
Most guys walk through life feeling as if they do not deserve a HOT girl or do not have what it takes to go for one. Sometimes, even when these guys do happen to build attraction with a HOT girl, they tend to sabotage the situation because they don’t feel like they are capable of holding on or keeping up. The reality is: no one is going to give you the permission you need to have the kind of girl you want. Decide right now, that you deserve, have permission to date, and can hold on to a HOT girl.
Let me know what you guys think and please feel free to add to this list. Looking forward to your opinions!
Cheers! _________________ Andy Yang
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