I'm assuming everyone has met someone before, took time to get to know them (without making it into a system), and became really good friends. You do it so well that you don't have to think about it. Why then should picking up women be soooo hard???

What I'm going to tell you might go against what you've heard from a lot of people. But basically, before you start to worry about getting in bed with a chick or impressing her (you should never try to impress a woman), you should be her BEST FRIEND!!

Yea I said it. You should be her really good friend. You should be the person who she tells EVERYTHING to. Even things she wouldn't tell her other friends. That alone makes her trust you more than anyone else (no brainer there).

How do you do that??

It's very easy. All you need......is her phone number.

Now I've heard some funny things on the internet before, but one of the funniest things you'll hear is some guru's who say that you should not waste any of your time talking to a woman on the phone.

WTF?????

I've never heard such idiocy in my life. Think back to the times when you and your closest friends would spend HOURS on the phone talking about who knows what. Either way, the bond you both shared and that good feeling you have after a great, long conversation feels awesome!!

A woman only hears your voice on the phone. Let's forget the fact that you can turn her on a lot just by slowing down your words and adopting a very sexy tonality. Especially making everything sound like sex. Although that's advanced hehe. She can only use her imagination to see what you are saying. You want a woman to imagine good things about you.

But back to the subject!! Think about how lethal getting a woman on the phone with you is. Don't even think about meeting up. You can spend the week just talking to her. Now, let me raise a few points of concern. For a lot of people, especially women, talking on the phone is very nerve wracking and they initially get nervous. Some women just don't even like to talk on the phone period....UNTIL they get comfortable with you.

That's it?? Yup. If you can establish from the get go that you are fun to talk to over the phone then you don't have to worry about it.

Also, you need to be talking to her to genuinely get to know her. Not some BS convo like "soo....how was your day....." where you could really care less and are just asking her so you can segue into asking her to meet up with you. Why not take advantage of the fact that said woman has live on this earth for so many years. Let's say she is 25. That means she has 25 years of lifetime experiences that she can share with you. Do you know how many experiences and stories that is? That's why you are only fooling yourself when you say you have nothing to talk to a woman or anyone about.

Basically what you want to do is get a woman to open up about herself to you over the phone. Get her to tell you what her family is like. Especially her dad so you can find out how you should be like to her. You'll find that a woman who has had no attention from her father will be more of an attention whore so you can be the father figure in her life and put her in check when she needs to be. A woman who has had a good father will tell you about him and that is who you want to emulate.

You want her to tell you her whole life story over the phone. That will make you so special in her eyes because you will truly know her. Not only that, but you can then leverage that because now you know what makes her tick and what makes her feel whatever emotions you want her to feel. Once you have her mind, you have her body (lets just hope you have good intentions with it and not just to break her heart).

Women LOVE to talk. It is their drug. Just to be able to talk about anything and relate to it is what they are experts at and love to do. So talk to women over the phone.

You don't have to call her everyday. You can even find out about her in person when you meet up. However, talking over the phone grows a special kind of bond that when you take to each other in person just grows that new found familiarity.

Also, she can't be the only one blabbing. You have to tell her about you too. In fact, the more you tell her about you, the more you can just sit back and let her talk away. Just be a good listener and show her you do care about what she says and thinks. That's what a woman tries to tell you anyway when she talks to you. She tries to tell you how it is she thinks about certain people, situations, and beliefs. You are there to reaffirm her beliefs and push her to achieve her goals. That's what building relationships are all about.

Hope that helps everyone!!

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Ill admit I use to use the phone call game a lot only problem that game is kinda died. Its to far in the later of communication ladder. Your chances of winning over a female with out a good repuir it's slim to never.

But if you can transaction to her calling you then its a advantage.the longer conversation the better chance to create trust

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Stop right there. There are certain things you just said that I have problems with.
"Chances of winning over a female"?? When I talk to a woman on the phone, I'm not trying to win her over. I'm being her friend and relating with her. I'm telling her things that I would want to talk to her about and she is doing the same. I am not using this conversation as a way to get into her pants. I am just talking to talk to her and grow that bond.

"The longer the conversation the better chance to create trust"??
You don't create trust by talking to a woman on the phone for a long time. You create trust by actually being someone she can trust. What's your INTENTION dude? Are you trying to use this chick for sex, or are you actually trying to get to know her?

I can't believe some people actually read this post and the only thing they think is "Naw man, your gonna get blueballed and placed in the friend zone."

You guys need to stop seeing SEX or repeated sex as the final step. Its because none of you get laid at all or rarely. So naturally your hungry. All you want is something to eat (aka screw). Yet the ironic part that NEVER fails is when you interact with a woman and show her your personality just to be you and not to screw her. She throws yourself at you. It has never failed. I'm not saying it's wrong to want to bone a chick. I'm saying it's wrong to let it rule all your emotions and actions to the point where you make calculated moves and actions just to have sex with her. You call her becuase you hope that will bring you closer to effing her. You neg her because you hope that will bring you closer to screwing her. You play cocky funny, not because its fun to do and you wanna have a good time. But because you hope that will get you close to gettin in her pants. Trust me man. I LOVE Sex. It's only natural. But I don't sweat myself worrying over what I'm gonna do to have that with said woman.
Its all about your INTENTIONS! You might think you have a woman fooled when you come at her non genuinely but she knows exactly what your up to and that's why most of you haven't gotten laid. Unless you either got lucky, or you got lucky enough to meet an idiot.
Read my post again and apply it. Talk to her not because you wanna f her (as in don't make that your MAIN reason). Talk to her because you wanna get to know her.
Don't knock it until you try it. It works for me. I only posted it cuz I want it to work for you as well....

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stop jumping the gun old timer regardless your attention are the same. and creating a relationship just off pure friendship is lrr( last result relationship) meaning she dating you because she felt convertible with you. but her love for you is more like a friend then true passion.

its like if you were to have feelings for un attractive friend you've known. and the reason i said phone call game is not a good suggestion.

because of all the newer technology, woman well easily believe their busy, most phone call in reaction is mainly of luck if it a first time call with out you texting them. or if she finds genuine interest.

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Naaaaaahhhhh, sorry man I think you just went too poetic with this.

I understand what you mean about the important is having a relation with a woman, not sex. I am not very much into sex, I prefer to keep on seducing women because sometimes there will be women you cannot fuck and still you want them to be part of your life (long time friends, married women, ex gfs, etc...).

In any case I think you are wrong about the phone, because unless you are calling her at 9 pm Sundays there is a chance she is busy and you will not be able to talk the deeps you want.
This is more of a logistic contradiction itself.


Reasons why phone game is hard:
-You cannot express yourself at so many levels
-Sometimes you run against time
-Your intentions tend to be more transparent.


That's my opinion

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