Hi!

I am still struggling with my game but I decided to go direct since I want to cut the overcomplicated BS.

So far, I only did 5 direct approaches during day game in the street and I am still building confidence in these situations.

My main problems at the moment are: I am not 100% confident, I am not persistent and I suck at transitioning.

For the confidence and persistence, I guess I can only get it from practicing. But for transitioning and what to say next I hope you guys can give me some help

I did some research and found a few interesting threads on direct game:

street-game-tips-from-experience-vt7124 ... treet+game

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What a shame! I cannot see the picture on this one.

does-direct-day-game-really-work-vt8390 ... treet+game

I am starting to get the girls interested in the way I deliver my approach but I really struggle when it comes to transition. The « what are you up to? » is quite lame so I am looking for other ideas.

Solutions found so far but not experienced:
i) From what I read you can tell her why you find her so hot. But what next?

ii) I found a video of a guy called Rob Judge who proposes insta date in the first min or so. If he gets a no, he fakes it like « no no no, not now. Give me your number so we can X ».

iii) I also watched a vid from Sasha. But he's very situational and I am not confident/creative enough to only rely on this sashapua-direct-daygame-approaches-vt85518.html

If you have any experience/ideas/videos on direct game (in the street if possible), please post them here

http://www.daygame.com/2010/videos/the- ... ter-hello/
That whole website is ful of gold. Transitions I use are observations. Practice making observations and assumptions about things and people. Walk around and notice something that stands out on people.

Thank you!

No problem. Here's a video of Yad from the website getting a kiss close on the street.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DFjAb-fvzPs

Their podcasts are amazing. My favorites at the moment are the ones with Adam Lyons and Paul Janka. Yad is the person who works well for me.

Cool!

He seems to have great conversational skills, but I prefer the guys who are more aggressive right from the beginning

I get what you mean. Yad's style personally resonates with me. I like intentions to be known but not said, for the most part.
They've a podcast up with Alan Roger Curie, author of Mode 1, if that's more your style.

Well... that's the style I want to tend to

Thanks again!

Look. Whether you "game" is direct or indirect, you are either AUTHENTIC or not. Going up to a girl and telling her that she's cute because you think that this will bring you further will not make you better with women. Yes, you might become more confident, but its that confidence that will make you more attractive, not what you say. I am a big fan of saying what's on your mind (blurting) without having any filters of "how should I act so she'll like me".

I suggest you dig into the core of your lack of confidence, find the patterns that hold you back, become present and then go out and be YOURSELF. Then you can say whatever you want (to give you an extreme example, my friend Johnny Soporno tells a girl within five minutes that he wants to decorate her cute face with his load. And the reactions are usually very positive ).

Hope this helps.