Hello

I'm in a high school equivalent and I find that no girls at all are interested in me. I look all right and that sort but I am just not considered a target of desire. This seems to be abnormal as most of the girls in my school send lots of heavy and obvious IOI's to a wide range of guys. Of course, this is partly because the boys don't treat me as someone of high status, or even their equal.
I chose not to post this in the inner game section as i've always had plenty of confidence in myself. I don't think I seem needy either.
I just can't seem to influence my status. I try to take part in a range of activities so as not to be seen as dull and to avoid alienating myself.
Also, I have trouble taking part in conversations. The subject that my peers talk about and the way they speak just seems a mystery. They basically seem to talk about nothing and, not having been good at doing the same, I am not 'allowed' to take part in conversations. They don't literally push me away but they just don't listen.
btw it's not because i'm dumb. I'm cleverer than most.

What I would like to know i how to be seen as a person of high status.

i feel what your saying fam.

the trouble with enviroments like school where you see the same people every day, you eventually will build an image based on your social circle, your dress sense in the minds of other people.

this image gets reinforced everytime they see you, and if this image isnt positive and you are unaware of this, then you become lower value over time.

unfortunately, you cant really change someones first impressions of you, but what you can do is positively work on yourself, create a strong social circle which you are the leader of, and positively learn the game and how to DHV.

im sure you can find how to DHV somewhere on the internet or by searching this forum, and good luck in your choices fam

And get good at speaking about... well... nothing.

And the only way to get better is to have conversations with them. So go do it regardless.

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