Tonight I fingered this chick, about 8 mins before I said to her... "Wow I can't believe the things I told you."


we are in my car

her: Oh its OK I probably forgot most of it anyways.

me: No its not that, I just don't tell people those things. I guess I just feel really comfortable around you.

her: Oh thats good

me: Yeah! Your like my little sister!

her: Ohhhhh

me: Yeah usually when I say that to people it means I don't like them. Here lets see if it feels like I am kissing my sister or not

I lean in start kissing her, get on top of her, start fingering her.

The line is



"I can't believe I told you this. I just feel really comfortable around you."

That little sister part could blow up on in your face EXTREMELY easily, seriously man. You have the right mindsight, but comparing her to your little sister, then wanting to kiss her? That would make you come off as creepy. She'd be thinking "So he's kissed his little sister?! " y'know? Even as a disqualifier that wouldn't be the direction I'd go for, I'd always use something with potential to lead into sexual frames. Plus, most if not all of your comfort building should be non-verbal.
Nothing can't be solved with some good body language.

I find your convo extremely disturbing that could explode in your face. She coulda turn that into something ugly, but apparently she wanted you so what you were saying didn't matter to much

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Back then they didnt want me, now im hot they're all on me

haha, she wanted u. but don't be mistaken, it wasn't those last words.

lol looks like you also could of taken that further... have to agree that it seems kind of creepy that you told her that right before hooking up with her. She may be even into that who knows lol. The whole "little sister" and putting her into friend zone etc is usually done AFTER hooking up to isolate and put the target in its place.

K thanks guys