i met a HB through some friends, we hanged out a bit (me her and the friends) and i walked her home and #closed.

i texted her the next day "whats up?" , and no reply.

so now, 3 days later, im thinking either call her and not mention the text ("what text?"), or maybe add her to facebook first to gain some rapport and comfort in her mind first.
share some wisdom =]

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Everywhere is within walking distance if you have the time

did you create attraction initially ?

walking her home may have been afc.

texting next day with a boring whats up seems afc.

seems hard to turn this one around. just try harder to build attraction next time you run into her.

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When pretending not to care what she thinks becomes really not caring what any of them think...that day I will be a PUA.

@kavakid

i dont think walking her home is AFC, although i do regret not going in to see the place (what was i thinking -_-)

i did fuk up a bit, but ill call her anyways, hopefully joke around abit and get her out (or me in)

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Everywhere is within walking distance if you have the time

I'm starting to realize that if you are bored then she is bored. When I look back at times that I fucked up with chicks, I realize that I was doing things that were boring even to me at the time. The only thing exciting was the thought of her with her clothes off.

So now I try to make things fun for myself all the time. So with that simple idea in mind it becomes much easier to do anything. Teasing her is fun. Saying "what's up" if boring. You are not excited when you send that text. You are only driven by the thought of sex. When you start realizing that you can have a lot of fun by fucking with chicks while you pursuit them (or visa versa), it opens a whole new world. And then you also work on other aspects of your life and getting enjoyment from everyone you meet and everything you do. So that chick will want to be a part of the fun. "What's up" just says to her that you are throwing away this moment in the hope that something more interesting will happen later.

By the way did you leave your name in the text? I do that if she didn't save my number when I met her.

Anyhow, you did fine, at least you are trying. And by the way, I am still learning too.

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When pretending not to care what she thinks becomes really not caring what any of them think...that day I will be a PUA.