Hey guys,

So I met this girl this past Saturday at a club. Saw her in the beginning of the night, shes about a HB9, she was with a friend who was not as attractive. Throughout the night I was with friends celebrating a special occasion, the whole time i noticed the HB9 getting hit on by several guys, while the friend was left standing alone. So, I tried to play it differently, I went in later that night and engaged and talked to the friend, then my wing man cam in and talked to the HB9, later the Hb9 sat down while i continued to talk to the friend, I then switched to HB9 and had a convo, hit it off etc and got her number.

I texted her about a day later, we exchanged a couple of texts, and i proposed that we meet during the week, unfortunately she was going out of town for a couple of days. Initially texts seemed great, like she had string interest. She arrived back in town on Tuesday, again we texted and finally i proposed that week meet later in the week to chill out/grab some food or drinks. She never replied back to the text (tues night) and has yet to respond.

I am not emotionally invested at all in the girl, and my plan was definitely to not re initiate text with her, if she does text me back, since she made me wait 1 day and counting, I was going to ignore the text, and make her text me again if she really wants to meet. She definitely gets as many guys as she wants, and I dont wana be another AFC. If I dont meet her, theres no harm, but my pride remains intact. I feel that by playing this approach she sees that Im not like the rest of them, bc I know, if I do meet her up one time, i can work my stuff and show that I am worth it. But, at this point I have not been given that opportunity. What are your guys suggestions and what do you think of my strategy? That is not re initiating texting if she never responds back?

Thanks guys,

Appreciate the help

Its only 1 text, no need to start worrying to much, How long did you guys talk for when you met?
If it wasnt long then the problem may be the fact that not enough comfort was developed. In another day or 2 just text her and see if she replies. If she does you know that she is probably interested but there wasnt enough comfort for her to feel ok with meeting you and making plans, just keep the banter going until you feel its the right time to try to get a day 2

We talked for a good 30mins or so the day I met her. She does know of me from friends but this was our first meeting and again, just by chance. The first day after meeting we exchanged a bunch of texts and it seemed like she was very interactive. I tried to set up a meet sooner rather than later, but like i mentioned unfortunately she was going out of town. The one thing that Im concerned about is that, she is in fact not interested in getting together at all. She exchanged texts several times w me on Tuesday, but the second i mentioned meeting up, she stopped responding... and now its been 2 days with no contact. I dont want to text her again and seem desperate, that is the thing im concerned about there. And the thing is, she is an HB9, so through friends I know she goes on numerous dates a week and apparently, that night I met her she gave her number out to like 4 guys. So, not sure how to approach this

One more question,

I have been told that she is a very "nice" and "friendly" girl. I have met girls like this in the past and actually have friends like this as well. They will respond to a guys text even though they are not interested, but to be "nice." How do I make that distinction in this case? Maybe she was just entertaining texts in an effort to be nice? and then, when I asked about a meet, she decided not to reply? Sorry If I seem like a newb, just trying to get some footing and understand the process a little better. Thanks again guys

posting ur exact txt's could help...