So.. apparently I am good at getting interest off of a first message, but here I've found I've developed a new problem.

When i was 18, I could just pop online and say "Hey" and the easy girls from around here would be ready to hop on and make a night of it.. I mean hell they're girls after all and 16-18. But now that I am 23 years old, it's getting difficult.

I've found interesting ways to open a girl but I can't keep a girl's attention to save my life.

- What should the next few messages after you open a girl be about?

- How in the world do you combat "idk yet" or "i'm busy so idk" when you ask them to hang out or meet up.

- How to get past the very serious girls? My god, some of the girls on PoF or other dating sites are so super serious when it comes to who they talk to. I've been told we'd never work off of the first message because "i'm not the exact religion" "I don't have any arm tattoos" or something really specific. Girls are so strict and so serious on these sites it's ridiculous.. I get there's a huge sea out there to fish in but it's no wonder you're still single, you're so damn picky and snotty.

- Yes, how do you deal with snotty women online? Offline not giving a damn seems to disarm them pretty well but online, a lot of women are so snotty and bitchy. I'm having a hard time finding a way to disarm bitchy women online.. I don't know if they just get a kick or enjoy turning down guys to show to their friends like "look at this nerd I turned down"? Who knows?

We all know "Idk" or "I'm busy" is an excuse just like "I'm not looking for a bf". AKA: they're just too nice to say "Yeah, no" if a girl is genuinely interested in you, she'll make it happen.

Any tips on these particular issues?

In my opinion I hate dating sites because they mostly just judge on your looks...my advice would be to tell them

"Hey listen, I sent you an email the other day and i never heard back from you, I'm kinda shocked because I was talking to a couple guy friends the other day and we were talking about women and stuff like that and you know its funny because most average women usually play hard to get and as guys we all know that, and that the sexier women is very assertive and goes after what she wants and doesn't play thos games. anyway give me a message back sometime, worst case? you'll make a cool friend"

That seems to work the best for me, but I don't really do online anymore

When I become successful enough to move, best believe me I'll move.

I currently live in a town.. yes.. a town with only 1 bar and according to Census we have 10,000 people but I'm calling BS on that one.

Ohio really is a hole :\ Sure there's places like Columbus/Dayton/Cinci/Cleveland little trash town ghettos with people but they're far away. So right now I'm referring to some online gaming.

I miss being a late teen, it was so easy.

- What should the next few messages after you open a girl be about?

complimenting her and getting her contact info. don't converse that is inefficient.

- How in the world do you combat "idk yet" or "i'm busy so idk" when you ask them to hang out or meet up.

Give her a choice when.

- How to get past the very serious girls? My god, some of the girls on PoF or other dating sites are so super serious when it comes to who they talk to. I've been told we'd never work off of the first message because "i'm not the exact religion" "I don't have any arm tattoos" or something really specific. Girls are so strict and so serious on these sites it's ridiculous.. I get there's a huge sea out there to fish in but it's no wonder you're still single, you're so damn picky and snotty.

You just have to deal with it. Don't make it a big deal. There are still lot of fishes on the sea. But to answer your question. Just plow.

- Yes, how do you deal with snotty women online? Offline not giving a damn seems to disarm them pretty well but online, a lot of women are so snotty and bitchy. I'm having a hard time finding a way to disarm bitchy women online.. I don't know if they just get a kick or enjoy turning down guys to show to their friends like "look at this nerd I turned down"? Who knows?

Why are they bitchy in the first place? Is it after you've sent the message? Of course it is.. The problem was on your approach