I've really been enjoying the natural game. I'm really into the body language stuff; it's amazing how much more I now know about people (even those I've known a lifetime).

So I've been very alpha in this class at school. Just kind of happened since it's a class with lots of group work--it's a great place to meet chicks.

I walked in a bit late, and low and behold---the HOTTEST chick has nobody sitting next to her So of course I take the opportunity. It's a part of my natural game. I must be the man. And the man always sits next to hot chicks. That's what the man likes to do!

We end up doing some group work, and the whole time she's showing IOIs and nervousness. I was the alpha of the group (Me, 1 guy, 4 chicks), so I was involved with everyone's work / ideas. Perfect stuff. The girl keeps shoving her book towards me, angling it towards me, leaning slightly towards me as I read and tell her my ideas. Twirled her hair a bit, didn't lock eyes for long (I'm taking this as nervousness) and she had a dancing foot as well.

I wanted to say something to her after class, but she passed by me hugging her books & with her head slightly down and her eyes glued to the floor.

So what's going on with this chick #1? Am I misinterpreting this?

#2) All systems are GO for Tuesday's class! I'm definitely ready to sarge her and I'll be thinking of ideas, but I like to rely on the situation. It makes me more comfortable talking to them (it's not like I came up with BS for the hell of it). Any words of wisdom are greatly appreciated.

IOIs:

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It sounds like you are being the dominant one, and she's not....perfect. The only thing I can recommend is that you keep the alpha status and don't let anyone take it from you.

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Well I took your advice---I kept up being the alpha today in class. I did a great job. Unfortunately, the girl never showed! ARRRGH!

Anyhow, there's always Thursday. At least I got a "dry" run. I'll let you know how it goes. I appreciate your perspective.

keep updating, this is interesting.

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And it got much more interesting yesterday:

So I sit down next to where she usually sits. This other hot chick thanks me (helped her via email, I'm glad she's a hot one). She gave me IOIs when the class started (before I heard about PUA, was in LTR anyways) but stopped when I didn't return them (totally AFC, but I was not enlightened then).

So she starts flirting, and this girl who I originally wrote this thread about sits down next to me (right between us).

The professor quiets us down and says we're doing group work--hell yeah!

So I'm alpha as usual, but I can't make the move to be more flirtatious. I locked eyes with BOTH girls multiple times. The one next to me (original) is pretty intimidated by me. Typical AFC behavior (on a girls part, at least). VERY shy, nervous, etc. Preened when I would engage her. The other one (that I emailed) sorta saw what was going on and backed off.

Now, there's this other chick who specifically made "nice talk" (okay she was hitting on me) before I was enlightened by PUA stuff. She's still really friendly to me (even better now that I'm being alpha). Even complimented my shirt (and how it goes w/my eyes). Now if that's not hitting on someone, I don't know what is (besides "wanna fuck?").

Soooo... Now I'm feeling like THE SHIT because 3 HOT girls are definitely interested (in a single class with maybe 10 girls tops!). But, I also feel like SHIT because I didn't have the balls to do anything...


Any advice for dealing with this? I think the problem is that I have to see these people every week. It's definitely an inner game thing, I'm convinced. I know I just have to grab the bull by the balls, but it's tough! That's why we're on this forum anyway.

So I'm pumped but not sure what to say. I should definitely go with the ballsy one (who was hitting on me). Her friend was even friendly with me when he left the class (kind of a guy-to-guy, my friend's into you, you should open your fucking eyes kind of thing).

Perhaps I should sit next to (or near) her next class and just be VERY forward. Maybe like:

"Hey hows it going...." (response, how are you) "Good now that I'm talkin to you. So why don't we finally break the ice and grab a quick bite before my next class?"

If she says no OR isn't jumping at the idea, I'll say "Hey, don't be bashful, I KNOW you want to."

It's direct, and as long as I say it with confidence it should work.

Any opinions? What about the other 2 chicks? I'm not reading too much into this, am I?

Usually if you think you're reading too much into something, you probably are. I say relax and enjoy yourself. As for grabbing lunch or whatever, I'd just frame that as something I'm doing anyways and tell the girl, "come with me, it'll be fun," instead of asking. I'd meet any resisting with some teasing, tailoring it to the situation.

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I tried this today with one of them, I appreciate the advice. It worked pretty well [considering it ended in rejection that may not be 100% rejection]. But it got her engaged and talking to me! And I totally looked alpha, so thank you eromontamrood! So here's how it went down:

I get to class pretty early, sit in front with a guy I've always talked too. One of the girls sits down behind me, one goes to the back of the room (one that hit on me a while ago), and the 3rd is a no-show.

So, we do group work as usual. We STARE each other down. And do I mean STARE. I write my name on the paper, she says "Oh come on, not like that!" and proceeds to take my pencil, erase vigorously, and rewrite my name. Definitely an IOI! Shit like this continues. At the end of class, she slowly puts her stuff away, making me convinced she wants me to approach.

So, I'm a bit nervous but I tell myself that I will be kicking my ass if I don't talk to the girl. It is NORMAL to talk to the girl. So here's how it went:

"So watchya doin right now?"

Ehh, nothin really.

So I say, "I gotta go pick up some tick tacks and grab a quick coffee before my exam, you're more than welcome to join."

She says she's got to get ready to do rugby practice. But we're still walking and she was smiling ear to ear. She was definitely enjoying the moment.

So I say "You do the same on Thursdays too, don't ya?", and she was like "Yep."

So then I figured I'd go direct. I like direct. So I took my phone out and hold it out to her and say "Well, you got a # don't you?"

She's like "yeah, BUT"


Wait till you hear this one, I NEVER saw it coming!!!!


"my GIRLFRIEND wouldn't like it much."

We get talking a bit and it turns out she's a bisexual in an LTR w/a woman. She was still being VERY friendly so I KINOd a few times anyway, definitely felt a more trusting vibe whenever I did it.

I realize now that I SHOULD have dropped the line on a 3some (guys, I really think the possibility was there).

So when we got to her dorm we parted ways, but she said she was very flattered and something along the lines like "I made her day." If only every rejection was like this, we'd all be hitting on girls all day long!!!

So...... What can I do about Thursday? There's the 2 other girls in the class who were NOT in earshot when I started gaming this chick, though one or 2 people FROM the class overheard (and even one pointed out my ballsyness which was cool!).

Anyways, I'm wondering what's the best plan of attack? Should I stick with trying to get the threesome on Thursday, or would I be best trying to game one of the other girls?

Let me know, I'm soooo pumped to sarge. I'm loving the day game at school, people are very receptive!



Addendum:
Thanks to all of you for your advice. My confidence is increasing every day. I actually felt a RUSH (a very nice rush) after talking with this girl. I actually enjoyed it a LOT. It's making approaching in front of others easier. Just gotta keep practicing.


Addendum 2:
If I don't go for the 3some, would this be appropriate to befriend this girl? She seems like a genuinely good person with social status---the kind of person that would DHV me just for hanging with her.

Dude, be friends with her if you like her. The game is just a game, not your life. Good luck escalating with these girls!

Careful with 3some talk, just because that girl would be down doesn't mean her partner would be down. If you joke into and get a negative reaction a great line that negates it is "Ooh too soon?", great as long as you used the correct tone before that. Too serious and you overshoot the landing.

I also wanted to thank you for the love(in your FR and the vote ) , appreciate that you got so much out of it.

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Thanks to some family emergency, I've been out of town the last couple of weeks. Though I think that the other girl will be a better game. I appreciate all of your feedback.