I go direct, set up a day 2, and then get their number.

THEY NOT ANSWER WHEN I CALL, THEY DO NOT RETURN MY CALLS, OR THEY DO NOT TEXT BACK.

During our interaction they are laughing, giving off IOI's, shit testing me, asking me if I'm a player ect. I get there number, then they ignore me. Then when we see each other again they seem really happy to see me and are giving off IOI's again! What the hell!?

This keeps happening over and over the exact same way. Is it because I didn't qualify them?

Is it because I didn't make the day 2 specific enough and seal the deal?

Do they think I''m a player?

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Yea both of ur guesses are exactly correct for why the girls are flaking on you. I doubt you are qualifying and if you are you're probably qualifying incorrectly. Setting up a very specific date (i.e. a time and place) will also help, but the more important, more necessary part of picking of girls in qualifying. It's amazing how many PUAs don't qualify or don't qualify enough. That's why there are so many PUAs out there who can get into set and even make girls laugh and it LOOKS like true doing so well with girls, but they STILL don't get laid very much. Most of the time the reason is lack of qualification.

And yeah, they probably do think you're a player. Qualification (done right) will help to stop that.

How long does it take to qualify? The females are usually on their way to class and I don't know how/where to lock-in as there are no walls or places to sit directly near by. What can I say to move them?

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wait, so, explain to me what types of sets your doing. Your stopping girls as they walk to class? Is that the main type of set your doing?

That's right man, I'm stopping girls as they walk to class.

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I don't know why everybody is so obsessed with stopping girls as theyr walking to class. If you're on a college campus, you have a bunch of better oppurtunities to meet girls than while they are walking to class. That's your first problem. Start opening more seated sets. There is no reason to focus on girls who are waking to class. Theyr walking to class!!! They don't have that much time to talk to you, regardless of how good your game is.

For moving sets, you either have to get a quick phone number within a minute or two or you have to move them somewhere. If they have a little bit of time, you can move them to go sit down, or you can even move them off to the side. Even moving them 2 feet so you guys are leaned up against a wall is better than nothing. If you can't move them, then you can throw out a large qualifier like "so what makes Jessica special?" she's either gonna give you a good answer or she's not. It can go either way.

The bigger issue is that you are focusing your time on a type of set that has a relatively low potential of it going anywhere for you. I'm not telling you to stop doing moving sets all together, but you have to realize that moving sets are the lowest probability sets. They either go well or they don't. Start opening all the seated sets and girls in the library and girls in the cafeteria. You have a much high potential of those sets going somewhere because you have more time to talk to then and they are not in the middle of trying to get to class.


Make sense?
Look. I've opened many moving sets and YES I've gotten laid from it, but it is not what you should be focusing on.
Does this make sense? I hope it's clicking cuz most guys REALLY get caught up in trying to open moving sets and it's not worth all the time and effort when there are plenty of cute girls sitting on benches on college campuses with more than just a few minutes on their hands to talk to random stanger
Ya dig?

Yep, makes plenty of sense. Thanks man. I'll focus on seated sets from now on.

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