Hey, I've been reading through this forums for a while and decided to join and get some help or share my minor knowledge.

(because it's my first post )

The story goes as follows:
I have a fuckbuddy who has a boyfriend, and lately i feel like being too needy
about visiting her. This thought only crossed my mind after reading some topics
around here.

What would you text her?

FACTS that might help:
1) We are very attracted to each other.
2) We had sex before.
3) She claimed she was really busy for a while.
4) I've texted her 2 days ago and she told me:
"I might be able to see you in 2 days" (today lol)

Any recommendations? I'm Open minded about it would appreciate tips or just discussion.

Sincerely yours,
Oxy

HOME WRECKER!! hahahaha nah i cant talk... i've been there lol... its her boyfriends fault she's cheating anyway! my theory is if there is a bloke out there who has enough skill to steal my girlfriend away then ill high five that mother fucker and tell him he's done a good job and deserves her lol...

what do you want to achieve out of this message?? what are you trying to do? just find out if you're seeing her today orrrrr what? lol :S

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A wise man once told me
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I'd like the message to make her curious and looking forward to see me,
and yet get to know if we could really get along tonight.

I appreciate the fast response,
this forums is really leet.

Oxy

anyway, i just texted her "So, will we do something special tonight?"

lets see what im gonna get..

Hey.

Note that I'm new to this so this may not be the best advice, but here is my opinion.

You shouldn't have asked her to come out with you. You said "So, are we doing something special tonight?"

This sounds to me to lack confidence. In stead of asking if shes coming with you, you should assume that she wants to.

In stead, and please correct my game if I am wrong, you should have said something along the lines of:

"I am doing something special tonight, and I would like for you to be a part of that. What time can I pick you up?"

Then, if she asks what you are doing, say something along the lines of "You will find out when you see me." Or "Cant tell, its classified I can only show you."

Then do something spontanious and fun that neither of you have done before, or do something romantic, like having a picknick in a park under the stars if the weather is right. I dunno, be creative

Pros, what do you think?

yeh aiki you're on the right track...

never under-estimate the power of a pre-supposition... do you know what they are? here's an example for you so you can learn from your mistake and make your own up...

#If i want a girl to come over to my house ill use a pre-supposition... basically i imply that when she gets here (which she hasnt agreed to and i havent directly asked her) we will participate in some fun activity... this is what i usually roll with lol...

"omg guess what we are doing tomorrow night?! you and i are soooooo going to have a slumber party!! will be so fun!! we can both do each others nails... and then we'll do each others hair... and then if you're good... ill put make up on you! you'll love my make up putting on skills... after you've seen my gifted hands at work you'll be coming to me everyyyyyyyyyyyytime you go out... im THAT GOOD!!"

ok so i dont usually roll with that exact one... i usually use guitar hero as my excuse for them to come over lol... well i used to... i have a gf now but whatever lol... so yeh do you understand what went on in that??
i assumed she was coming over tomorrow night and we were going to have fun... obviously she KNOWS she's not coming over to have a fucking slumber party lol... but it adds mystery... all she knows is that she's coming over but you've kept the reason a secret by making a funny future projection...

hope that helps you learn pre-suppositions... if you dont understand message back on here and ill try explain it more in depth... im struggling at the moment... im tired as fuck lol... enjoy!

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A wise man once told me
"Bros before hoes, unless hoes have no clothes!"