ok so ive got a question, im no stranger to LEARNING pickup, so any questions telling me to read this ebook or watch that video wont be much help, i just want straight up specific answers that i havent been able to find/hear in any book yet, they all suggest kino, but give very few examples. for a former AFC, its hard to just go and kino when you dont know whats acceptable, whats good, what doesnt show too much interest, and what not, so yeah, what are some kino things i can do? different scenarios too like talking to someone in a hallway at school, seeing someone at a party/dance, any answers would be extremely helpful as i think kino would definately help up my game, but so far i dont know much kino except playfully pushing, spanking, touching her shoulder when moving in to tell her a secret or just saying anything, but thats it.

My advice is when ever you are unsure so go for her hands. Whether this be leading her from point a to b or holding her hand as you lean over the desk to talk to her. In my past experience I have found holding hands to be huge in getting the hb to connect with you and is definitely a good starting point for keno. I’m at the point were I have no problem reaching out to hold the hands of a hb I just meet but I used to be terrified by the thought of this. The trick I used to get over it was to start playing the "slap game" were one person puts there hands under the others and tries to quickly slap the others hands.{can be seen in the movie wedding crasher's} I found this helped me build confidence and allowed the hb's in my social circle to become comfortable with my keno.

xMILOx

yeahh thanks for the post leading is good with the hands, but i was wondering whats good to like escalate into more arousing kino like something that would make her start to enjoy the kino more and more, im not sure what the next level would be, as ive heard from many sources its good to keep escalating kino smoothly until its time to get intimate so theres no "awkward moments" where you have to make your move, so what else is good kino?

Very low back but not her ass, top of her leg, and my favorite: arm around her and gently stroking her neck with the back of your fingers.

- Memento

well once you are a little more comfortable I always go for my palm on the hip bone. If you are joking around or dancing you can put pressure in the ball of the hip bone which seems to have a nerve in or around it. I have field tested this and many of the hb's i have tried it with find it stimulating yet its still not to sexual and can still be seen and a friendly gesture.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OYi9KhVHvlQ[/youtube]

Watch this guys body language, its extreamly good.

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nice post chikito that vid is just what i needed

another thing i should have asked before, whats some good kind of playful fake-mad kino? say she did something that deserves a fake mad/neg kind of thing, and i mean besides the typical little shove. i was thinking if she did something bad you could take her hands and say "mercy fight!" then you could stop and say "ew your hands are sweaty you must have been trying hard there" (typical neg, fits the scenario good) and then quickly change the subject, or look away, would this be ok, what are some alternatives to playfully being fake mad?

do palm reading...you don't have to know any...just do it as a joke...

like "gimme uR hands. Ah yes...wow, do you see that. How it curves the way it does. And the color of uR palm at the moment tells me of how you are feeling at this very instant. I didn't know you feel this way.....And you've been holding it for so long"

her:"what?"
you:"Yes, you have my permission to go to the restroom"(throw away her hand)

if she goes "I don't have to go right now."

respond with. "I must be having an off night. I didn't say it works 100 percent." or "Did you take any Pepto?" or just go on to the next thread.