What are some things you can say to a girl when she says things like that to you...I responded in a very sarcastic way several times, but smiling of course.


We were talking about my living in France, and I dated a lot of really, really hot girls over there. I didn't tell her that, but she kept pushing saying, "c'mon, surely you dated hot girls" so I said, "well, ya, that's pretty much what I date exclusively."

At one point she acted angry because I wouldn't tell her she was "really hot", how I had described a girl who was my LTG for almost a year.

I broke down, and told her the same thing and then even told her in a moment of weakness that I did feel a little disoriented after kissing her. I know, I know, I never should have said that but 3 glasses of wine and a guinness left me weak.

What can you say to a girl who is trying to DHV herself like that?

Need more info about the sit....girl u just met? u at a bar? girl ur dating??

_________________
If youre not willing to risk, you cannot grow. If you cannot grow, you cannot be your best. If you cannot be your best, you cannot be happy. If you cannot be happy, what else is there?

Whole story: great-first-date-then-not-much-interest-vt87021.html

You misread the situation, shes giving you a shittest. She is pouting about u not tellin her shes hot so you will give in and thus she has the upper hand. By admitting she is hot or what not you put her on a pedestal and loose your frame. If it went down like this:
Girl: "so am i really hot?"
Guy: (assuming shes a brunette) " I actually prefer blondes, luckily your so (insert other descriptive word like smart or funny or cool) i can make an exception this time"
You therefore avoid her question, you throw her off by saying shes not your type(neg/push) and you compliment her to bring her back into you (pull)

Keep it light, keep it playful

You could have also always just thrown it back at her and said something:
Well Clearly you date hot guys, so we are even. Gotta say that one in a cheesy manner, like sooo cheesy she knows ur playing around.

_________________
If youre not willing to risk, you cannot grow. If you cannot grow, you cannot be your best. If you cannot be your best, you cannot be happy. If you cannot be happy, what else is there?

I haven't been on the forum in a while and had been in a relationship for a while so I forgot about the rules lol

I have another date with her (as you might have read), so I'm trying to prepare myself for her next shittests. It took a lot of patience and putting her off to get the second date after her having really let her guard down and then suffering what I'm assuming is buyer's remorse.

So now, she's going out with me again and I have no idea what to expect. Of course, I'm going to keep it light...just want to be prepared for more shit tests like "you thought about me for the last two weeks, didn't you" or anything she might say that is cocky.

Would it be terrible to say, "well, I've had other girls or (things, with a smile on my face) to keep me occupied? Which I have.

Ya dont say girls, just say ive been really busy the last couple weeks, had to deal with some important things (if you do say that then make sure you can bs a story about what you were actually doing dont say i had to clean the windows on my moms house). Follow that up with, but im glad i have a little free time now because its been too long since ive seen your pretty face.
Its all about push pull, she shit tests, push her away dont give into what shes trying to get you to do, if you say something that may upset her, you can retract quickily with something cute.

_________________
If youre not willing to risk, you cannot grow. If you cannot grow, you cannot be your best. If you cannot be your best, you cannot be happy. If you cannot be happy, what else is there?

2nd date went ok..put an update on the other link if you want tochime in...