So I've been doing direct approaches at college. I approach moving sets with a direct opener. The problem is that in my interactions I end up bantering(being funny) and talking 90% of the time. I leave the interaction actually knowing very little about the girl. However, she knows alot about me. I think this is why I'm getting so many flakes.

My pua friend said I have to elicit info from the girl. How do you get them to talk??? What questions can I ask them. If I can get them to talk I can build an emotional connection and less flakes.

Any help is appreciated.

conversational-mastery-never-run-outa-t ... 86225.html by the sounds of it you have plenty to talk about, mix what you have with the info in my post and you should be getting better results, look in detail section 1 the questions part

you need to be asking questions, this may not give you the quick fix because other areas of your game could be lacking, see I don't know anything about you but from what I've read hopefully this will get you a little better at least, even if its just 1% its still improvement

Good luck, and let me know how things go