I've been reading up on seduction (The Art of Seduction, The Mystery Method, and Make Every Girl Want You). All of these books are designed to make a succesful pick up and seduction when you can talk with a woman and lead her with your intelligence and demonstrate high value. But what happens when you're in the middle of a dance floor and the music is blareing? There's no way to talk. How do you attract attention? How do you demonstrate value and lead a girl from the dance floor to a quiter place where you can run your game there? I've heard that dance floors are a trap and should be avoided for a more perferable quite SPAM, but it seems (at least in Milwaukee) that the dance floor can't be avoided. What advice do you have for me?

on the dance floor, its all about body language / personality (confidence) ...

I'd say dancing is a DLV for most people, so in general stay off unless you're decent or good.

If you're trying to get better at dancing, the most important thing is keeping the beat ticking like a metronome in your head and making your movements - prob left to right to left to right - crisp on the beat.

Stay away from the Dance Floor Death Trap. Its fun to do I grant you but like you already noticed, it is crowded and noisy. Here are the problems with the dacnce floor: It's way to loud to talk ie run openers etc. Your target's attention is divided. Lastly, unless you are really good its going to be difficult to do much else other than DHV with body language.

Plus: Since she can't hear a word you are saying, try to run your opener, if she can't hear you move her to another area to run your routines, etc.

Its not a bad place to meet some women, but best to wait until they go for a break from dancing and then run whichever methods you prefer.

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NO NO NO NO NO. People, quit being afraid of the dance floor. Yes, the music is blasting. No, she can't easily hear you. Yes, the floor will be crowded at times. ALL of that is actually your advantage. Learn a few moves, and learn them WELL. Then, when you get to the club, USE the moves. Get the attention of the girls WITH your moves. They love to dance with a guy that knows how to dance. That automatically starts the kino, attraction, and comfort. Just don't run up behind them and start grinding immediatly. That will freak them out. Start dancing, on your own, while making eye contact with some. When they start moving toward you, reach out, take their hand, and have them vibe with you. If you two can vibe together, it's a done deal. After the dancing, take her to a quieter spot in the club.

i couldnt agree more im a really good dancer no ive never had lessions im just good chicks approach me and try to dance with me if your good there is no better opener downside if your crap you wont even get noticed

The dance floor is a hard situation. As apposed to just strait running game where you gain your target's attention by what you say, being interesting and telling good stories, dancing usually requires physical attraction first. She has to think you are an attractive person before she will dance with you because she won't want her friends to see her dancing with an unattractive guy. But in regards to the question once you are dancing with them how do you get them off the floor? If you have been dancing in a club you all know that it is hot on almost every dance floor. I will lean after dancing with her for 2 songs or so and say "It's buring up in here, come get a drink with me" or "I am burning up. lets go get some air." Walking up to the bar is a good chance to get some kino in, you can always lead her off of the floor with the soft hand touch on the small of the back.

"Let's get some air" is fine, but "let's get a drink" is bad. It automatically implies to the target that you are paying for her drink, RIGHT after you met her. NOT good.

I can't dance. Period.

I don't know what good dancing in a club would be.

Someone please fill me in (Realistically, Breakdancing is a bit OTT )...

Any help would be seriously appreciated...

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If you're trying to get better at dancing, the most important thing is keeping the beat ticking like a metronome in your head and making your movements - prob left to right to left to right - crisp on the beat.

watch the clip from Hitch when he's teaching the guy to dance. If you're a dance noob, STAY IN THE ZONE

to learn to dance, take a few swing (or other dance such as salsa) classes. It will teach you the basics of body movement and rythm. You will soon figure out that what you learn in one dance is aplpicable to others, in terms of dance moves and body movements.

trust me, countless times i got girls vibing by dancing swing and throwing them all around, they love it, plus its a very rare skill, good for your value. (remember swingers, when mikey meets lorraine).

hope it helps...

Im with the later posts saying that we should be using the dance floor. If the PUA community has come so far in world of the female mind then the dance floor is just another transition. Another learning curve. Trial and Error. There is a path to follow here lets learn it.
Latly I have been trying to develop my own theory of how to pull on the dance floor because I know it can be done. The post that said keep the beat in your head it spot on. I remember hearing it on Eddie Murphy Raw and then applied it and fuck it worked for me, someone who CANNOT dance!!!! I think its really important to be having fun or at least potraying that you are having fun as well as having some moves. If the d-floor is kind of empty or of it is totally empty bust out the moon walk. You will DHV like a mother fucker when you bust out the moonwalk and the girl is unsuccessfully attempting it, looking un-co. (un-cordinated). You can learn it on youtube and its fucking awesome. If you want to go further with that then look up The Melbourne Shuffle. It will take a while to master but fuck man if you can pull that move off girls will be foaming ovaries our of their eye sockets.

Ummmm . . . there are clubs in this country where the moonwalk is still cool? lol, wow.

Yep, last night, I was dancing with my wife most of the night (and she's pretty shy), but at one point when we stopped, I went to the MIDDLE of the dance floor, ALONE, and just started getting into it. Had a couple of girls checking me out (a lot of them are as scared as you guys are, remember that), and one black girl immediatly came up to me and we got each other's vibe and rocked the dance floor for the rest of the song. Definitely had people's attention.

I am actually from Australia. Here nobody ever busts out the moon walk on the dance floor, it would be as common on the dance floor here as seeing somebody light up a bush fire on the dance floor, (which might be a good way to get the attention of a group haha). I truly believe though that the moonwalk will never be uncool, never ever haha.
I havent been able to try simply dancing to the beat cause I have been away for the past few days for work but I have a massive break now and am hitting the sarging scene hard

The dance floor is my best friend I start by dancing with a girl then battle someone. WIN ONE BATTLE AND THE FLOOR IS YOURS. At least for me in any case. I just go "woo I'm tired why don't you come sit with me?" after a Break battle. AndI love dancing so ++ ya.

There is NO reason to be afraid of the dance floor! you dont need to dance like Michael jackson just to be able to get on the dance floor. me and a couple of my wings went to a club last night and i finally got my buddy out of his shell and got him dancing. it was pretty funny, and the girl was even giving him the puppy-dog-food-bowl look! you just have to be able to find the beat and youre good. once youre dancing with them, start touching her and if she is toucing you back, its an IOI and take it if she starts rubbing your legs or puting her hands in her pockets, there is a good chance you can get her off the floor and start your game. DONT BE AFRAID OF THE DANCE FLOOR! dont sit on Death Row!! women dont like that, and neither will you