Hey guys!

There's a girl - in a big shortcut - she invited me to her prom night some time ago (before that I considered her just as friend, nothing more) and from this evening I've started to feel like I would like to get together with her. So we've been talking via FB (mostly she did start to talk), meeting once in a while, but I just couldn't kiss her (yeah, I pussied big time).

Now to the point: I've met this girl yesterday, we've spent few hours together (as usual we talked all the time and that's what I like a lot about her - can talk for hours about nothing without feeling awkward when there's a longer moment of silence). I used kino a lot (touching her hair, face, belly); well, we really often holded our hands while walking through the city, she laughs all the time and me either. So basically it's awesome and everything goes really good (we always have a great time together I guess, but this time it was superb; I bet anyone who looked at us would say we're a couple).

'And where is the issue?' you might ask me. Well, she mentiones A LOT about some guy she hangs out too. He even called her during the meeting but she refused to answer. It kinda pissed me off, because everything went really good, and then she says like: 'Oh, look, we've spent like 3 hours together. I've spent like 6 with X on Valentine's Day'. At the end she kissed me on the chick and I just walked away, she caught me and wanted the same but then I kissed her lips. I bet she felt really weird, but couldn't talk about that, because her bus was about to leave. SO. Is this just her trying to make me jealous, or just she doesn't know what she wants and just fucking with me?

Oh - we haven't talked since that situation. I can do much better than her, but I really like her, so what's the point to look for something else at the moment. I can tell for sure that there's something serious between X and her, but this guy knows her for loooads of time, so they're both get into friends frame I guess, and struggle to get out.

Any ideas? I think I'm just going to chill down and wait for her to talk to me, I hope I fucked with her head with that kiss.

Thanks for any responds guys. Have a great day!

Seems like you start to enter the dreaded friendzone.

I haven't been in this situation myself but it seems like you need to "seal the deal" soon. If you have all this connection with the girl why haven't you just kissed her yet!!!!?!!?!??
My best tip for you is too be a man and go for it! It's hardcore to just say be a man but ask yourself, what would Tom Cruise have done in the movie Top Gun?

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I'm afraid you might be right about this friendzone thing but on the other hand this last meeting was totally not like meeting between just friends. For the first time I've builded such a big kino and comfort with a girl. I guess, she was totally mine.

I know this girl for about 1,5yr, and as far as I'm concerned she's been into me for a long time, but I have never shown any interest in her until just now. I felt she's just cool, treated her just like a friend and never thought about her in sexual way. It's like as long as I was 'I don't give a fuck about you girl' she was really attracted and craved for attention... now I believe she realised I'm little bit into her too and she acts little bitchy out there. What I'm sure of is that I should totally be more decisive, unhesitating when I realised I like her that much, because fucking with girls head is great, but not for such a long time.

I guess I need to get some distance here, find some other lady to hang out with and back to 'I don't give a fuck' because I've found myself reaaally into her lately, overthinking whole situation.

Hey,

she didn't respond for my text for about 3-4 days after our meeting, where I KC her just until now: 'Sorry that I haven't answered your text, but there's been a lot going on, something's changed and I needed a while to think it over.'.

What do you guys think about that? Obviously I'm not gonna wait same time to answer, that is pointless I guess. Wondering if should call her instead of texting, but I think that would might scare her a little bit, which is I don't want here I think.

also look at tom cruise in cocktail