Ok, Im not very good at taking girls away from there boyfriends. I do have a question. Im talking to this HB 8 and she has shown all kinds of interest, we have kino alot, danced with her, held hands just about everything but the kiss. The thing is that she has a boyfriend but she has never told me yet. One day I found out from her friend that she had a boyfriend and I totally did not want to keep talking to her because I could spend my time doing something better like talking to a girl who does not have a girlfriend. Well after a week of knowing this, I stoped calling her and hanging out with. I still see her, because she is in my class but I fell as if she has turned down all her IOI that she had been sending before. I know that I could be falling into the "lets just be friends" category but after i found out she had a boyfriend I kind of talked myself into saying thats just fine.

So is it possible that she likes me alot because she never told me she had a boyfriend and is it to late for me to to try and get out of the "lets just be friends" zone.

I really liked this HB8 and thought we would get together but I found out she has a b/f. I personally respect if a girl has a b/f so I stopped pretty much hanging out with her. Dont want mixed feelings to be their. If your really into invite her to do something and start over again with kino. If that doesnt work, theres millions of others.

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Learn from my mistake...If a girl is interested in you and your interested in her, get her number before you get drunk.

If she doesn't mention the bf, then yeah, its an IOI. Don't bring it up, or try to steer the conversation in that direction, its the road to failure, trust me. What you need to do is get back into it like the guy above said, and just keep it moving along. If she doesn't tell you about him, then keep going if you really like her and you think she's not happy with her bf. Or don't do it. Those are your options based upon my philosophies. I don't mind taking a girl from a guy that doesn't treat her like she deserves, but if she's happy, then I won't make any moves unless she indicates that she likes me more.

She might tell you just before you start kissing, or having sex, and it is usually then that you need to asssure them that you won't do anything that both of you don't feel comfortable doing and want to do. If she wants you, then she will keep going, she just wants the que from you that she isn't being a slut and she has permission to do what she wants.

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I tried hard the other day with a hooters chick. It got to the point where she wanted to hang out and bring her BF with us?! LOL.....im serious! I was like "y dont u just stay here and work and me and your BF can go pick up some hot girls?"

Proboly not the best line, but i didnt know what to say. I proboly should have went into a funny 3-sum situation joke.

long story short there are boyfriend destroyer routines (actual name). Im new to the game, never saw any, but know em from The Game (book)

just keep up your kino, kid. dont let it drop. get the fact that she has a bf out of your head, because like iv said before, if she doesnt mention it to you, it aint your problem. take her out on a date, dont call it a date, dont even describe it like a date, but some how end up just bein the 2 of you out doin somethin fun. kino kino, and follow a routine to a k-close. you might get rejected on the k though, your going to have to wait and see. but if it doesnt happen soon it wont ever anyways may as well try it.

good luck,

PB

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are you saying that if a girl reject a kiss, she will always reject a kiss??
i rather not believe that.

no thats true, but that'd mean having to kind of go away for a while and coming back with a whole new persona, so she doesn't view him the same way she did before. but this is all just speculation.

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