I'll quickly set the scene, empty house, me with a girl, snuggled up on the couch and nobody home all night.

I've known this girl for about 1 month, this was are first time alone together and first time i met up with her by herself. We were getting on really well snuggled up, good body language towards me and was letting me play with her ass and boobs. As we talked it eventually went on to sex and sexual partners. I have always been honest about this to anybody i have ever slept with. She asked me how many people so i answered. She then asked me how many of the people i have slept with were one night stands and again i answered honestly. Every girl i have slept with has been a one night stand.

As i said this is her body language changed and she looked disgusted at me. I then asked her and it turned out to be more than me!!!!!!!!!!!! For the rest of the night she wasnt interested in anything sexual or touching me.

After i left i have been continuosly texting her. She now refers to me as a manwhore. :S.

This is not the first time it has happened, which poses me with the question what should i do?

Should i lie about how many people i have slept with?

Change the conversation, when asked?

Act like they were mistakes?

I dont lie, but I do not say the truth. I try my best to stay away from giving specific information about my past because then they have informtation to judge you on.

I do not like to lie, yet saying something simple like "I have slept with enough girls" or "yes I have had one-night-stands because I live the moment" will not be lies; they will say something good about you. They are general enough that she cannot judge you and specific enough that she will be intrigued by you.

I usually play the card that my past is behind me and made me who I am, so what matters is the moment (then I start talking about how good i feel around her and how i notice how good she feels around me blah blah).

If you are ever caught in a position where you know that information that you say will be taken negatively, just steer the conversation elsewhere. You do not need to answer these questions, so dont, and always make it clear to her that what matters is how good everything is NOW (not how things used to be before)...

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I never lie to get laid--partly due to ethics, partly to keep honest to myself, and partly because I don't need it. At the same time, it's no one's business to know how many girls you've slept with or what the circumstances were! Especially outside a LTR, she doesn't have a right to ask (let alone get an answer) about who you've slept with! Nothing good can come of such information, regardless of your answer. So stay clear of the subject, deflect, tease her about being a nosy, inexperienced little prude.

Whenever I am forced to answer, I relay the following points:
- I am happily/healthily single because I want to be, and that includes sex.
- I love sex and am quite good at it.
- There is nothing wrong with an active sex life (unless you're a catholic priest maybe )
- I stand by the above three and whoever can't live with it won't work for me.

You'll do well to make that last point implicitly, rather than separately communicating it. Lastly, you made a huge mistake by texting her continuously after she pulled back. Should have told her unapologetically what you're about, take it or leave it, and parted ways.

I tend to lie, but blatantly women usually take the hint and you can just continue on

I.E.

I've only slept with... maby 2000 women and a few men mostly prostitues and rent boys (all said so she knows your having her on)

You should never get into that conversation in the first place. That's a personal conversation you can have once you've been seeing a girl for a few weeks. Just don't get into it, and if it comes up, just say it's personal info that she has to wait to find out, and change the subject.

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Ugh. Be careful with that, she can easily think you are hiding something.

Guys! Does anybody see a shit test in here?

HB: How many girls...?
You: 3649. But you are the first this week so it counts as twice.
HB: How many one night stands?
You: None. All were my wifes. Or husbands.

If she asks further, set the frame "gentlemen don't talk about it", show her your discretion.

Besides, I think the problem is with "she was letting me play with her ass and boobs".

Salut!

Surielx.

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All great responses!

I believe im just gunna avoid this topic from now on and if it does get raised i am going to steer the conversation else where!!

So much love for this community another problem solved and another move in the right direction!!

Thankyou guys

Man, I don't even speak about other dates with the girl I'm gaming, let alone one night stands or ex-girlfriends...

If you give away those information, no matter how prude/womanizer the answer would be, they'll start thinking (and you know that when a woman start thinking rationally, you're not going to get anywhere!).

The answer will never be right! So call her on it!

So, yeah, treat it like a shit test!

P.S. seriously you only had one night stands? That looks weird even to me, unless you're very very young...

The reason she is even asking you the question about one night stands is because subconsiously she wants to make sure your going to stick around after drilling her. All women do. When you said that all your sexual conquests have been one night stands than that obviously triggered her anti slut defence to the point where she didnt even want to touch you at that point. "Every female has it hardwired into her head a behavioral that works to protect her against getting pregnant by a man who has no intention of sticking around to help raise the child" Mystery ~

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