• A quick drink or a quick bite work best for a venue on the first date. Try and get alcohol involved. Making conversation and getting over first date jitters is always easier to accomplish when both parties have a couple drinks in them.
• Walk in with a big smile. This show confidence makes you approachable, likable, desirable and makes a good first impression.
• Mirroring is a strategy I use to build instant chemistry. It involves subtly copying your date’s body movements. For instance if she sits back, you sit back, if she speaks loudly, you speak loudly, if she puts her hands on the table, you do the same. The premise behind this is subconsciously she will begin to think you have chemistry.
• Have some go to stories in case the conversation ever goes stale. I call this your “monkey story.” When I started dating again for the first time I found that on many occasions an awkward silence would occur. You want to avoid this at all costs and by having some canned stories ready you will be prepared to do just that. The monkey story was an incident that occurred when I was traveling through Africa. The thing that made this story so successful in breaking a date out of an awkward silence and creating a new level of energy were several things. First the story was exciting with lots of twists and turns. It contained within it many comedic moments. It made me look adventurous and experienced in life, which helped increase my desirability to women. After this story the date would get new life. So think about what could be your monkey story. Make sure it is exciting, funny and out of the ordinary. Everyone has had some sort of experience in there life like that. It is just a matter of coming up with it and reciting it a few times to ensure a flawless delivery.
• Try to make physical contact during the date. I always found that going for a girl’s hands was the best way to achieve this. A common tactic I would use was to straight up ask a girl to touch her hand. As common excuse I would use is that I wanted to see how soft her skin was because I liked girls with soft skin. In more cases then not this would lead to casual hand touching for the rest of the date.
• Do you want to see this person again? Make plans to meet up before the date is over. Never leave it until later.
• At the end of the date always try and walk the girl to her car. Then go for the kiss. Straight up tell or ask the girl you want a kiss. Then is she puts up any resistance use the excuse that you were raised in a European household and kissing and physical contact is common practice for you and it’s a cultural thing.

I thought your not suppose to make plans till days after the date, I thought your not suppose to "ask" to touch her hand or kiss her. You just do it. I followed most of the rules on here with a date last week and I got friended.

The key is to be highly confident and alpha male if your doing it in a way that comes across as weak or expecting rejection you will fail.