In my experience with women, I have found that women will call any guy an asshole, even if he treated her like a princess, bought her everything, or changed aspects of his life to better suit her. When women would call me an asshole I would ask myself why? Then I would ask them why? After going through this a few times I realized that women put guys in a trap or game where guys are always assholes. The opposite of an asshole is a nice guy, which all women are looking to meet. (Yeah fucking right most of us might say). To guys being a “nice guy” is treating a girl like a princess, and kissing her ass by lying to her about how her ass doesn’t look fat in those jeans or some other kiss ass white lie (which grows into bigger lies if you add time).
This is why we are force to determine what a nice guy is. Is a nice guy a guy that will be nice, treat a girl like a princess, buy her things, tell her white lies like her ass doesn’t look fat in those jeans? Simply no. A nice guy is a guy that will tell the woman the truth, act more like a friend, bust a girls balls, point out that her ass looks fat in those jeans, and will not give out stupid undeserving compliments because a true nice guy will make them earn a compliment that is true. A guy that buys a girl drinks, pays for her evening, and treats her like a princess by tending to everyone of her needs is not a goods guy. Is a father that spoils his bratty kids everything and tended to every one of their wants a good father? Hell fucking no! A good guy will keep a girl grounded in the truth even though it might hurt.
A great belief you can have is that you are being a REAL nice guy. You are being a nice guy by giving women what they really want. You are being a true friend in that you are giving them a rare divine attribute by being their equal (or greater) and a true nice guy. A real, true nice guy doesn’t kiss a girl’s ass; he busts her balls and makes her equal (or less) to him.
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Keep your feet on the ground,
Keep your head in the clouds.

The bigger asshole I am, the more tail I get. I have proven this to myself and others time and time again.

It is what I call chick logic. They want what they can't have. They like someone to put them in their place. They want to be the submissive 9 times out of 10.

Let their boyfriend buy them the Louis Vuitton. You just want tail. Don't be available to her all the time.

my 2 cents.

damm right. even on msn, or telephone, the more cocky and close-to-mean I get, the better the response. Nice guy approach (the traditional nice guy conception) was my worst mistake and am working to change it real quick. this is quite eye opening!

look it doesn't matter what the woman calls you because well woman don't think logically they think emotionally so when they call you an asshole its not because your actually an asshole its because she's angry thats all it means and if you want to be nice without being a nice guy i suggest watching the DYD dvds to get an idea of it.

Hi Synergy,

I used to be the King of Nice Guys. I wanted the world to be a great place where everyone loved and helped one another... kind of like the Hobbits in Lord of the Rings. There's only one problem. In that world, the nice guys get screwed in the ass. That's the way the world is. End of story.

So the way I live now is a bit different. I love women. Some of the most highly respected people I know are women. My mother... my sister... Mother Teresa, etc.,

But the part that's different about me, is if a girl acts like a bitch, I treat her like a bitch. End of story. When the girl start acting nice, I treat her like a princess. It's a give and take. And I'm sorry... I would love to go back to the way I was, but I'm getting too old, and my ass is getting too sore.

M

lol M

very well put

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from personal experience, when called an asshole just walk away OR direct ur attention to another HB as blatantly as possible. this usually gets the original target jealous and they feel the loss off attention and they come back licking ur ass ... or atleast it's worked for me a good couple of times

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So true HB's want that attention if you act the asshole and ditch em. But im not sure if you make it as blatent as openin a new set if you expect her to come back n kiss ass

i didnt mean openin a new set and routine on another HB, i mena using the people around her as pivots, without them knwing, ur not ACTUALLY interested in the girls, just you talk to em to arouse HB's jealousy because now she misses the attention.

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Chix want dick... so start acting like one!

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