Hey guys !

As some of you know, my ex gf and I broke up about 2 months ago. I decided to make the no contact rules, but had 2 to 3 times contacts (only txt) with her : for our birthdays only. During those 2 months, I decided to work on my game and my inner game, and realized a lot of things about girls psychology and about me too. I picked up girls, and even hooked up with one of them. I took some pictures with girls (on some pictures, we are pretty close, and I l seem to have a lot of fun), that have been posted on facebook; so she must have seen them.
During this time, I saw one boy trying to have her like an afc (posting hearts on some of her pictures, writing on her wall …).

Recently, I talked with one of her best friend. She asked me wether I had a new gf (because a lot of girls seemed, after her, interested by me). I told her that was not the case, ans that I let me the time to forget my ex (oups, mistake ?). She also told me that my ex didn’t have a new bf as well. However, I saw on facebook that she had fun on night clubs with her friends (girls), and that she goes out more that before (I think that it is good for her, she must have fun).

Ok Here is the case : yesterday I sent her a message : “Hey *****, I’m coming back this week end, we can see each other if you want to”. She answered that yes. She told me that on Friday night she couldn’t because she has already something, but we will see us on Saturday.

It’s pretty cool, but I don’t know how to handle with this. What to tell to her ? I still love her I think ... :-S

Thanks for your help guys !

Guys, I only have 1 night to convince her : we will eat. Is it better to go to a restaurant ? We can’t go to our house (her and me), so we have to eat out.

Convince her of what? You haven't said what you want...

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I still love her, but for 3 years we won't live in the same town. But I come back on week ends (1 over 2).

I'd like to be with her again, but I know that it can't work like that, we have to be in the same town ...

So, don't know what to do ...

Any advice ?

so let me get this straight.

you've improved your inner game, you mastered some pua skills, you are getting really good feedback from girls when you go out.

so...

you...

want to hook up with your ex and reinitiate a serious case of one-itis.

why again?

,if u really love her like u said u do,then let her go....she deserve to be free and you deserve to fuck with other girls.

Mack 2.0, I know, you're absolutly right, but I missed her a lot.
I didn't wanted to have no more contact with her in my entire life. Now I have to eat with her.

I don't really know what I want actually ... But I know I'm still in love ...

durden, why did you and she breakup? i don't need private details. just kind of the basic reason. if that's too personal, it's fine, don't worry about it. my point is there is often a really good reason that we breakup with someone. it's very easy and very tempting to look back on our previous relationships with a favorable view. but breakups are also pretty rough. make sure you replay all of that in your mind before deciding to spend time with her.

just because you miss your ex and still love your ex, doesn't necessarily mean that she shouldn't be your EX.

i miss my ex and still love my ex, and i would NEVER get back with her.

good luck to you in whatever you decide.