So yea, Ive been pretty solid with openers and have gotten several girls talking for short periods of time at work, but also met up with girls for lunch etc. But im struggling with a f-close. We just have like "friendly" chats and laugh etc etc. but how do i let her know that i want to to the next step with her??

thanx!

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Bump again...really need some help with this guys..thnx

just a quick reply. I am still learning pua stuff myself.

one step at a time. you need to get IOIs, get sexual, touching etc. and kiss close the girls.
focus on that. actually the final closing is really easy from there.

always go to the next step, if you dont get a "red light", so if the girls fine with touching, go for the kiss close. if she is fine with kissing you, find a plausible excuse to get to her (or your) house, car, etc. "watch a movie at my place", bring her home and say "I need to go to your bathroom for a sec." whatever.

search youtube for "gambler pua" for ideas on touching and physical.

look at the forum, 60years of chellenge, gunwitch method, etc.

well you gotta crawl before you can run kiddo...


just talking and sex are on the opposite side of the spectrum...

just take things one step at a time, touch her, flirt with her, touch her some more, kiss her, make out with her, have sex

thats the rough outline

honestly theres tons of PUA material that covers this, dunno why you are here asking this?? go read the game and watch pua material then apply it to learn what works for you, it would take me dozens of posts to break down the seduction process for you...

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Ummmmm, please DO NOT take ManlySpirits advice about reading the Game. Don't do that. The basic advice these guys gave you is good, you need to flirt and theres a lot of material on that out there. But both of you guys made it seem like touching is GO GO GO. You need to touch, then back off. Touch then back off.

BUT REALLY WHAT YOU SHOULD DO with these girls you work with is QUALIFY. Thats the next step. Give them reasons that you like them (other than looks). This is especially important with social circle stuff because you don't want to just start going sexual and touching too much right away (still touch though, I'm not sayin don't touch). QUALIFY!! That's the next step for you. Or else you'll just get LMR down the line. Ya dig?