I love my girlfriend but we have been going out for about 6 months now and we still haven't had sex, I don't want to sound needy but how and when should I be able to have sex with her? any advice will be much appreciated. This was for my friend but thanks

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Like it or not sex is a big part of relationship. It's not nearly enough for a good relationship but you can hardly have one without it.

I don't want to scare you if you're in your teens but it's actualy a good thing to get sex "out of the way" as soon as possible. It's healthy for relationship since you don't have to "obsess" about it. Sex is not a "finale". It shouldn't be a point somewhere in future but part of your relationship that you both enjoy.

I don't know if getting sex out of the way is the best way to think about, but it's definitely important in any relationship. It always seemed normal for teen relationships to leave sex until later in the relationship because the abilities to interact with each other are still developing. In our 20's we tend to less often fall victim to sexual tension (PUAs here are actively pursuing and creating it, in fact and the women feel good enough about it, rather than pressure and anxiety which is more apparent in teens). That's why teens may go months before having sex but older people can take a few dates. I hope I'm not over generalizing, but many stories match up with this.

6 months seems like plenty of time if you know her well enough. Just remember to give plenty of foreplay and make it the best experience she can imagine. She'll beg for it from then on.

I would add to that, just in case this is not a high school question. If you are a high school kid then this does not apply to you.

I have taken on the philosophy that until there is sex, there is nothing more than a friendship. I am much older than most people on this board, but when I was in my 20's , even late 20's, I had a very high schoolish concept of romance. At some point you must kick the Disney out of your head.

In the real world, sex and romance are tied together, or else you just have sex. If you think you have romance without sex, in the adult world, all you really have is a delusion that will unravel and leave you very upset at all the time you wasted.

To clarify.....you can have sex and romance together. You can have sex without romance. You cannot have real romance without sex.

Romance without sex is a delusion, it isn't real.

Like a poster said:
How old are you?
This has a lot to do believe it or not.. well I don't know actual times how they roll, but when I was 15, 16 or 17 ... Girls held back sex for a long time, months sometimes because its not in their mind yet, and to most girls, their parents have almost instructed them that sex is a sin or something that shouldn't be done, or that is wrong, thats why they wait for the appropiate moment and the person to have sex with, if they decide to have sex pre 18.
Once you turn 18, things change, girls are more liberal, but a lot of them still are waiting for the blue prince to come in his white horse and charm them into making love. Some girls at this age start to experience more "horniness" and parties get wilder, more than 50% of girls loose their virginity in a party under alcohol effects.
When you get to your 20's... 21,22,23... girls don't really care much about the being in love to have sex paradigm. Most girls have lost their virginity by this age, and have quite a lot of experience, they talk more about sex than what they used to. This are the "wild years" for most girls.
Around 25 I would say almost 95% of girls are not virgins anymore (My current GF lost her virginity at 25, by me) ...
Then past 25 the majority of girls start to want something serious, an actual boyfriend and not just a fuck buddy, girls start thinking about marriage at 27 or 28 years old...
Past 30, well, needless to say they don't care about sex and would fuck anyone.

And just past the 25 and 26 girls are in their

hey I'm 25, my gf of 2 weeks still havent even let me grab boobs. she gets all shy. so no sex lol....I have never been with someone without sexual interactions. any advice. she's 22. has anyone been in this position, she's a really cool girl, but without sex, I dont see it as a relationship. How long should I wait before I call it quits.