I've known this girl for a while, and I've always been straight forward with her, she knows I think she's HOTT!! and knows what I want from her, but she was in a serious relationship when I met her..

I had kinda forgot about this girl because she had moved to Texas with her now ex-boyfriend, about a year or so ago...

So on Christmas She texted me. The day you've been waiting for is finally here(she's single)..
I was like I know I've been waiting all year for Christmas..

Anyways she's back in Arizona now for about 2 months, and things seem like they've been going really great we talk on the phone, text and face book all the time.. I haven't switched up my game much because she tells me she wants me and I feel like I've been gaming well..

So here's PART OF THE PROBLEM.. She lives in Phoenix about 2 hours away from where I live in Tucson.. this shouldn't be such a big issue because I'm always up there to go out.. but I've only seen her once, in the 2 months she's been back in AZ..

When we hung out, things went pretty well with in a couple hours we were laying on the couch.. but her little brother was over so I couldn't really go further than rubbing each other under the clothes.. when i left I kissed her but not like a make out even, and i assumed I would see alot more of her..

Since then I know she gets alot of attention from other guys, and even has gone out on a few dates because she tells me that these other guys are so lame and she wants me to come up there so she can be with me..

but I still haven't seen her again..

HERE'S MY REAL PROBLEM AND QUESTION...

I've been back to Phoenix a few times since then and tried to hangout with her, but something always comes up now. the first time she said she was just really busy, and then when we had talked about maybe hanging out she just like ignored my call and didn't answer my text..

after that I just closed her out for about a week because I felt like maybe I was doing all the work, and then I start getting texts saying I can't get you out of my head right now and I want you so bad..

So game on again. after about a week or so i felt like things were heating up, and I could close for sure if I could just see her..

anyways i went up there again last weekend.. We had planned on hanging out/going out on Friday but I ended up helping my mom move that morning and didn't get up there until close to midnight, and I let her know I wasn't gonna be there in time to hang out.. when i got up there, she tells me her ex was gonna be in town the next day and she was gonna go see him for lunch, but to call her and we could hangout that night..

So i call her the next day.. No answer.. i text her a little later nothing.. a few days after this i text her just to how's it going.. Still no answer..

Today I get a message from her I misssss you!! I haven't answered yet cause I don't know what to think.. this is the second time she blows me off and then acts like she still wants me..

What should I say or do?? How should I handle this??

any suggestions would help because I feel like I've already tried my methods and they keep getting me stuck in the same place..

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I'm a wolf in a world of sheep

ive heard this kind of story before man. basically she's the one in control and you submit every time she mentions that she wants and needs you. A guy should never be in a situation to endure this by a chick.

the idea is to make her feel like that she's at the point where she's going to make a huge loss and that she is more desperate than you are. So you need to speak to her in an authoritative, commanding manner and tell her that she is treating you in a very disrespective way which is what you do not deserve. what you want to do is to negatively validate her actions (with a little positive validation) and disqualify her as a girlfriend. when talking to her, dont sound apologetic or say things which sound very demeaning e.g. "How could you do this to me?" "Why would you do this to me?" Aren't I enough for you?" etc.

hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude