OK so I will try and make this brief. I have been talking to this girl for sometime now. We hooked up b4 when I had a girl friend and she wanted it to go further but I thought I might actually like this girl and outta "respect" for both of them I didn't let it go any further then kissing and told her I couldn't see her anymore. Time has past she went away to school, and me and my gf broke up a couple months ago. So I attempted to hit her up, single now, over winter break and we made plans to hang out, she was going to come over to my house, and she completely blew me off. I called and text her got no response to both so I was like well fuck that.

In the mean time her friend has a huge crush on me, and shes cute, its just I would rather be with the other girl. Any ways thinking she blew me off I decided it was ok to hook up with her friend and I did. 2 days later the girl I really wanted hit me up saying sorry and she wanted to chill. After that I blew off her friend and hooked up with her the whole winter break. I asked her friend if she told her and she said no because she didnt want to start drama. So i am still thinking this is just a hook up thing for her but I was kinda into the girl. So when it came time to bang I told her id rather wait cuz I don't like to rush things with girls I like (I kno soo lame right?!) She loved it thou and was blushing and felt so special and she began to tell me how much she rly liked me.

Anyways she goes back to school and I thought that was the end, however I would occasionally text her and she would always quickly respond until it became more and more frequent. We would pretty much text most days, with me havin complete control. By this I mean i would always text her first but she would text me back almost instantly and even then I would be slow on texting her back. It even got to the point where we were talkin on the fone for an hour or 2 at a time. So I am thinking shes rly into me and I started blowin off other girls cuz I am into her. Anyways I was SOOOO CLOSE to sending her flowers on vday but i didnt want to make it seem like i was taking this too serious so I didnt but she was supposed to come home the following weekend so I wanted to still do something with her when I could. So i asked if we could go out to get dinner together then come back and watch a movie at my place. She was allll for it and I was excited and figured we would finally bang haha. All week shes tellin me how excited she is even friday.

Friday she tells me she just got into town shes gona take a nap cuz she doesnt feel well and hit me up and we'd go out then. She calls at 730 sayin something like ohh you didnt go eat yet? and I was like nooo? I was waiting for you? and shes like ohh ok then ill get rdy then u can come pick me up. 20 minutes later I get a text saying shes too sick to go out and she feels bad but shes gona stay in. I tried callin she didnt answer. Saturday I attempted to hang out again and she gave me same lame excuse. Only Monday to look at her facebook and see that she just blew me off, she was writing on ppl's status's about how drunk she was etc. Now she barly texts me or anything anymore? Any idea WTF went wrong? I really wanna try and fix this

I admire you for not F closing her then and there. Sex is special IMO and shouldn't be rushed. Anyway I think she is/was into you but the whole her being drunk thing is a red flag. Like was she drinking by herself or with others? I mean I guess it's none of your business but I'd keep an eye on that. As for what to do in the meantime. If I were in your shoes. I'd just do a freeze out and go off the radar for a few days. Let her send 2 maybe 3 texts before replying. She blew you off twice now? Yeah, let her come and get you now. You did enough chasing.

Well I tried to get her back. This past weekend we were both visiting the same college, and she attempted to meet up but I told her I was too busy. She didn't seem too upset by it thou. She will not text me first, EVER. If i want I can text her and she will most likly text me back but something is different, and she doesn't respond instantly like she once did. And this week shes going to be home for spring break and I was hoping she would hit me up trying to hang out but she hasn't yet. I hesitate to try and make plans with her cuz I don't want to come off as desperate considering she's blown me off hard alrdy.

Yeah if she's blown you off, at the MOST I'd give her one last chance but I'd probably just leave her and move on and if she gets back in touch with you or asks why your "off" then just be straight up about her blowing you off ect. But if she doesn't get back in touch or calls you then I guess you know your answer. Maybe move on to her friend?

Well I have good news... Eh kinda i guess. I ended up f closing her friend this weekend haha. If she finds out I don't know if thats going to want me more now, or less. Regardless at least I got something out of this situation. Sometimes girls can just be so hard to read!