So here we go lads, I havent posted in a good while since I've been fairly happy with my game and my love life as you could call it. However recently I find myself enjoying a stable and happy relationship.. well so I thought. The girl I happen to be dating got offered a scholarship. That would be awesome if it wasnt about herself moving to another country. Now I'm sitting here wondering what to do about one of those very few girls you come across and that you definitely want to date. A long distance relationship is not an option. She's accepted it as being under pressure cos of her parents. At the same time she apparentely does not want to move. As a realist i dont really believe in that even tho I'd want it to be true. Not quite sure what to do about it so why not to ask you guys that have helped me in the past! Should i give it a shot or just end it up before it gets even more serious? Any other possible options?
Well cheers for taking ur time to actually read this. Any help would be greatly appreciated since i cant make up my mind.

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jakslip~

wow man..
im in the same situation..

im leaving for the army in a few weeks..its real hard getting used to the idea of not having them anymore..

i believe its her journey..its also a lesson to you..are you working or schooling..do you have the option of moving??
does she want to continue..are you willing to shuffle a few feathers to keep her?

how long you bin with her??

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"oh just fuck them already"

I'd say i could have such an option too but im not willing to leave all my friends and family behind. I've been dating her for a couple of months now. She wants to keep going as she "hasn't decided yet". Call me selfish but im not ready for giving up everything for just one girl. It doesnt mean i wouldnt want her to stay tho. How about urself? Also from experience i know long distance relationships never work

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jakslip~

bro iv bin with this girl for 3years now..
haha..

and man..im telling u its one of those 'hardest decisions' ever!!

it is your decision to make..i wouldnt let it ride on hers..
and no..not at all..selfish would be asking her not to go and build a decent future for herself..selfish would be asking her to stay..

and no..id rather meet her someday in the future and continue what we had if possible..than do a long distance relationship and screw up every memory of us..

its a big decision..choose wisely..

dam..lol..i never thought id have to make choices like these..

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"oh just fuck them already"