I have a problem that I hope some of you might be able to help me out with. Last night I was on a Day 2 with a hard 9 I number closed last Thursday. It was her friends 21st so she had me meet her at one of the campus bars. I had barely sat down with my drink when I was told we were all going to a different bar already. I took this as a chance to isolate.

"Well you could go but then that means I'm going to be here. How about you wait with me while I finish my drink and we can walk over together?"

That seemed to work fine, so after the drink we headed to the other campus bar where her friends were raging. I bought the Bday girl a drink 1) because it was her bday 2) I thought it would help me build good rapport with my targets friends and it was kind of fun watching her struggle to take down drinks. I sat back and fluffed a lot with my target and when one of her friends approached I made sure to introduce myself. Things seemed to be going great, until we left to go to My last bar of the night.

We luckily were able to get a table and at 2:00 am that's impressive. the group watched as the bday girl took shots out of her gf's crotch and I continued to work my targets group, especially the guys. Everything went well until 2:45 when two things happened. First my target told me she was seeing a friend and would be right back and then group left to go to another bar with a dance floor. Now I was alone and trying not to be creepy but finding it very difficult when my targets "friend" starts hitting on her and building kino (something I still haven't done correctly with her). Eventually I positioned myself on the targets right side and with my back to her got one last drink and proceeded to talk to a stranger while I thought of a solution. I decided to leave.

Me: "Hey so I think I'm headed over to *&^% ^&*(&"

Target:"Oh ok, well I'm gunna stay here and catch up, but I'll text you later"

That was when I could have sworn the guy winked at me, because he knew he won. Does anyone have any solutions for how to deal with future friends?

Day 2 among HER FRIENDS? How's that a day 2 when she obviously would have so many other people to focus on. And as You saw there were SO MANY THINGS she could get distracted by. I don't think that's a place for a day 2.
For Day 2 I'd suggest hooking up just the two of You (make sure it's something You would do anyway and she's only there 'cause she tags along , that gets rid of the pressure of calling it a proper date) or invite her to YOUR WORLD (ie. some party You're hosting among Your friends).

In my opinion Day 2 are about building comfort and building maybe bit of sexual tension. But among HER FRIENDS while she's being distracted by them and all that stuff... is that really a day 2? I think from what I just wrote You can answer that now yourself...

If You manage to set up another meeting don't let her make you look like You're tagging along.

Hope it helped a bit.

Regards,
Mav-

Yeah man it actually helps a lot. I didn't realize the level of neediness I was demonstrating at all. Clearly my head wasn't in the game that night but thanks bro!