wassup guys? this is my first post, as i found most answers from previous posts.

So heres the situation:
my buddy # closed on a HB9.99 in the mall about a month ago. I kinda noticed she was making eye contact with me the whole time he was talking to her but since he was the agressor i let him do his thing. he txtd her tht night and got a response but wasnt able to keep it going. to make a long story short he got fustrated when she wouldnt answer his calls and take a long time to reply. I told him i could have did a better job so he offered me the number (he has natual game and is confident but no competition for the stuff i learned here).

My first txt wnt like this:
ME: hey this is (my buddy)'s friend....u kno the hot guy u were checkin out. Can i ask u a Q?
HB 9.99: who? looool....i dont remeber but sure.(She didnt even know his name..lol)
ME: ofcourse u remeber me! he was checkin u out and u were checkin me out.
HB 9.99: ohhh heyy you! lol..and how do u know i was checkin u out and whts ur Q?
ME: lets not state the obvious. my Q is how long were u gonna take b4 askin him for my number?
HB 9.99: U would have been waitin a long time for tht. besides i see it didnt take long for u to steal my number from him.
ME: so is there anything more to u than a pretty face?
ME: (after 5 min pause) better yet i have somthing to do save it for tomorrow.
HB 9.99: ur straight forward.....i like.....i guess ill see u toorrow then.
ME: i never said "SEE"

So these type txt went on for a week until we shceduled a date. she txt me the day b4 sayin jus found out she had work tht day but offered the next evening. told her i would check my schedule and ended up making plans wit her for dinner. this girl doesnt like to talk on the phone so its hard to get her to answer. i didnt wanna screw things up by calling or txting to much.

so i picked her up at her place and took her to dinner. ive never felt so natural in my life and was able to do some coin tricks, trust test and kino'd the shnit out of her. she told me she was intriegued by me and my confidence was sexy. she also said she loved the fact i could get into her mind and had great eye contact. anyway, after about 4 hrs i took her home. she wouldnt keep her hands off me the whole ride and i kissed her hands and massaged them a few times. we parked in infront of her house and talkd. i did the cube and she was amazed. she asked me if she could kiss me and i if thts wht u want. after a few min i got out to open the car door for her and she kissed me again wit a little tongue.

i got a txt few hrs later sayin she enjoyed the time and thankd me. i sent a simple response sayin thts good now take ur A** to sleep so u can dream about me.

Now my probs are:
- her friend is comming to visit 2 weeks in a couple of days and i dnt know if i should schedule another date b4 then or what.

- she hasnt txtd me since last night and i dnt want to look needy by txting her after i replied to her last txt.

- i dont know wht type of frnd this guy is and he might kill my chances for an F close.

What should i do guys?

how can you be needy after she showed so clear signals. man!!
She(!) wanted to kiss you and texted "thank you".

So call (or text) and do something. "You've Hijacked my Brain" worked for me often. Meet her and have the logistics to close. As you said, windows of opportunities can close, so do it!

Thanks for the reply steve. i txt'd her and heres what happen.

ME: Hey Wiggles (refering to her nose when she laughs) do u ever stutter when u text (I accused her of stuttering during the date)?

Her: (30 mins later) No because i DONT stutter....How are u handsome?

ME: (30 mins later) Im doing handsome AND sexy as usual. Wht time does ur frnd arrive on fri?

I was gonna set something up for lunch but she never replied. its been like 4 hrs and im stuck now. bro i cant stop thinkin about tht DAMN kiss and how sexy she was. i jus got over oneitis and im doing everything possible to keep from screwing this up. Im even startin to doubt myself. This SHT suck big time and it doesnt help tht im naturally impatient.

Hi khushri,


she was sending you green lights during the date and
then again one with "How are u handsome?"

you need to be nicer!

after the "handsome" you should have better called her and say something like
the "hijacked my brain stuff".
"You hijacked my brain! what did you do to me! I can't stop thinking of you!"

It's fun and you are congruent, because you where thinking of her, etc.

(need to post here the link of the youtube video, mystery explains it quite well in that video)

Man. Don't doubt your self. She is interested, you already have won.

Maybe someone else can help here too? Or ask in the chat room.

Thanks again steve! yea bro i think im lookin into it to much as i always seem to fumble somwhere. this has been my greatest and smoothest pu EVER. this chick looks EXACTLY like Megan fox (the transformer girl) so u can see why im worrying and she killed the oneitis i had for another HB9 tht is still tryin to play mind games wit her shit test.

anyway, its morning where im at and im almost sure she will respond by afternoon. if not i might hit her with the brain hijack (big ups to Mystery/Style: checked it out in the annihilation videos) or i might give it a few days and send her funny text.

i wanted to tone down the cockyness but didnt kno because im naturually a nice guy aka AFC and didnt wnt her to sense any of tht since she was so turned on by my confidence.

in the case we dont hook up b4 this guy comes to visit. wht should i do? text every few days or let ride for 2 weeks? all i need is an F close.....im not stuck on this chick jus want to accomplish the task.

I just don't see why you asked her about her friend.
I mean its good that she gets that you listen to her bla blas...
but go for what you want, set a date whenevers good for you.
Don't need to talk about other guys.

Don't do the brain hijack thing... It's really weird!

Just try to get her to meet you again this week. If it's a guy friend, unless he's gay she's probably into him, especially if it's that big of a deal that she can't see you while he's there. That means it looks like this guy is more of a priority for her than you are, and she's just keeping you as an option. That will change if you can fuck her this week.

If not just keep her as an option, keep sending her texts every few days and try to get her out. Meet other girls and don't worry about whether you get her or not. I'm just saying this because you seem really focused on getting this girl, and you said before that you had "oneitis".

Update:

sent her a nice txt for a change and she requested me to call her. the call went ok but she wouldnt stop talkin about her misfortune and the fact i was like her angel tht fell out the sky (i helped her with somthin minor). i did the ol u hijacked my brain routine and she said she liked me as well. before ending the call she said she would call me back later but never did. her friend is arriving tomorrow so i may wait a couple of days to txt if she doesnt contact me.

the good new is this guy is only stayin for 6 days, so 2-3 txt messages should keep me in her head as long as hes not dckn her brains out (im prayin for this dude to b gay).

she txtd me last night to apologize for not calling and how work was busy. told me to call her but she didnt answer.

txts from today:
her: hey sorry i was asleep when u called. my friend arrived this morning. how r u?
me: the kids were worried sick! have fun. ill b on a yacht for the next few days, can u wait tht long b4 seeing me?
her: i dont have a choice. really, thank u for everything and caring.
me: thank me later! u already owe me a home cooked meal and a back massage.
her: Done!

hopefully 2-3 txts during the next week will be enough to keep interest.

dont mean to hijack my own post but my oneitis (i played the AFC by emailing her my feelings) has been messaging me like crazy. i was gonna keep it short but she strtd telling me wht type of person she thought i was, if she was really into me she would have told me and how i only want to be chased. since i dont giv an F about screwing things up wit her anymore, i let her hav it. told her she was an atention whre, played to many games and to bad she lost her chance. also told her any woman i wanted would later chase or stalk me but i treated her different cuz i cared and didnt wnt to hurt her. to make a long story short she wants me to come over and "fix" her computer this weekend...lol...thinkin about flakin last min since oneitis is OVER but wouldnt mind an f/k close practice.