Hi,

Probably an obvious answer.. as I know what the word challenge means. But how do you put this into practice in real life?

Could you give me some examples or point me in the right direction?

Thanks

Zan

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"The journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step"

- Lao-tzu, The Way of Lao-tzu
Chinese philosopher (604 BC - 531 BC)

Not answering all of her phone calls
Not texting back right away
Dont hangout at every opportunity that arises
Dont be afraid to disagree with her
Dont answer all of her questions "correctly" or
Give absurd answers (While in attraction phase)
Be spontaneous or unpredictable
Push/Pull
C&F
Freeze outs (When deserved)
Taking the lead

What could a girl do to you, to be challenging?

^there you go

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Im from Sweden so sorry for any grammar or spelling misstakes.

That's great for a start... Some of those I knew.. some I didn't. But I'm glad of the clarification of what it actually is!

Thanks as always guys!

Zan

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"The journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step"

- Lao-tzu, The Way of Lao-tzu
Chinese philosopher (604 BC - 531 BC)

cat string method =] works great

How I look at it is everything should be done for a reason. Don't change yourself because of her by not answering her calls, answer incorrectly, push/pull, etc. Do it only if that's what you're comfortable with. An easy way to look at it is, would I do the same thing with my mate?

Being a challenge is the result, it is not the goal. Women like a challenge because it shows you're not just gonna sleep with anyone, and you're not going around saying this to every girl. Essentially, a man of standards.If you're a guy who truly has control over himself and his life then your ease and confidence will ooze out, from your vibe.

With this definition it's much harder to give examples, because it's all about what's appropriate and what's not appropriate. A quick one that comes to mind is if you say something and she holds an opposing view, don't be afraid to say, for example, "no, because if you were a sophisticated girl you'd have a much smaller handbag, a more contemporary design and stilettos but you've got this amazing, love-the-world, boho-chic look. Straight out of Moulin Rouge."