i dont know if this is the right section for asking this but anyway.
Last monday i went to have drink at the house one of my fromtimetotime female wing name "Ver", my regular wing name Wolfen and at HB 8-9 who work in my family restaurant where i and Ver works (sorry for using names of people you dont know but later in the story its gonna be easier to understand). So we were 2 on 2, talking having fun etc. I practically used all the games in "list of games" from this section and i was in the question game. In wich you ask a personal question and then she has to answer (pretty neat stuff )
We were asking about sex when i throw

Me-When was the last time you had sex? (in retrospective, i shouldndt had to do that)
hb89- Last week with the "something" i have, it was a long time since my last boyfriend

We continue and i could feel i was building rapport and etc. I could feel that it was the right time for a K-close and then..... Ver´s three years old toodler enter the living room (she was sleeping in her room). So all the sexual tension went out of the window. Imagine a 3 year old little blond baby girl with big blue eyes, holding a mantle and puppy expresion on her face. Both girl went inmediatly to play with her and saying "AWWWWWWW shes sooo cute". So i said to myself "yup the night is done"

The next day, i was joking and chatting with both in the restaurant (it was a boring day) and hb8-9 asked me to read her palm again to see if something had changed.
i agreed and tried (very poorly) to do some framing (i cant totally understand framing) by telling her that in her heartline there was a diverge (i dont know if it is the proper term) of two ways (by that i mean to frame myself as a path in her love life) i bust her balls a little by saying she probably has two lovers fighting a cowboy duel over her but it backfires me when she told me:
"jajaja, no im single..... well i have "thing" and amaybeinthefuture but thats all"

My wing wolfen told me to wait a month and try again when she gets bore of her "thing" because now it all new and shining but i have never been good at doing nothing (im very proactive ) but in this situation my question are:

1) Should i use BF Breakers on her "thing"? (i know it is BF destroyer, but breakers some like a combo in blazblue or something)

2) In case, i should can you recomend me some, a list (by list i mean maybe a site that has it) or and author to learn them

Best of luck

She has invited you to compete...

You can either compete and win... via bf destroyers etc.

Or what I would do.

You can just frame yourself as the obvious choice, neg her a bit, act completely disinterested, occasional IOI her when she starts qualifying, and then sit back in bewilderment as to how the fuck that actually worked.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

ohh interesting, so like my wing said, "wait and see"

Thanks a lot

I know im ruining the whole "sit back in bewilderment" thing but may i ask you why that work best? I dont mean like in a confrontive "mine is better than yours" way but in a "i want to learn more" way. I know i sound overapologetic but i use to be in a spanish PUA forum in wich everytime i questioned the reasoning behind a advice they though i was throwing trash at their game

Best explanation I can give.

If your dog gets loose and you chase it then it will "HAVE FUN RUNNING AWAY"

If you turn around and run it will "HAVE FUN CHASING YOU"

I look at it like this. I show just enough interest just by opening the set. After that I build some DHV and then act like the target is losing my validation. It is funny to me that 9 times out of 10 they just start acting out more and more to get it back. David D is spot on with his dog training stuff.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

Ahh i see, never though of it that way. Thanks