Hey you guys,

Any advice on where i can start meeting lots of people especially women!, i am starting to change my lifestyle, and need to meet more people, where i live i dont meet hardly anyone, i do boxing but dont meet women, i go to the gym and meet some women, but my job (im a carpenter) means i meet hardly any women, although some women find this a sexy job,

So where and what can i do with my free time to meet more people?

thanks

Heck, almost anywhere is good.

How about dancing class, yoga, art class. Those hobbies have tons of them around.

You could also just start hanging out at trendy coffee places. Start going to museums, lounges, art galeries.

Also, what kind of women are you looking for? What do they like to do (you might even ask some). Then go there. Do that.

Well let me start off by saying I do agree with TheJ about knowing what type of women you want. This plays a big part in your game while you’re working on your inner game and persona ask yourself what type of women you want. The best place obviously to meet woman is clubs considering there are tons of them there but this is all based on preference. If you like day game I suggest shopping malls, bookstore, coffee shops, and college campuses if you’re the right age. If you like night game then I would hit up the bars and clubs. I hope you find what you are looking for and good day to you gentleman.

Agreed malls and clubs, also resturants theres alot of casual sex between waistaff in resturants lots of single and un-single college age females work in resturants.

I like what I hear, but take this as a word of advice!
If you f*ck up gaming someone that you work with, you f*ck up hard!
Can anyone agree with me?

If you were to work in a restaurant/diner, it's best to be discreet. If there is an all-girls group that you are serving, make eye contact, maybe start with a opinion/situational opener, and look for immediate IOI's. If you start telling a story and you know they're hooked, you can easily bait them because you have work you could be doing.. then disqualify, and stack (if there is literally no work to be doing).
An IOI you may get could lead you right to a number.. If the group decides to pay cash, but one girl says she'll just put it on her debit card, she is isolating you so that you will have time to close the deal for day 2, or a drink later on. This can be very fun! Be discreet & watch for cues!


Working at the club can be the difference of meeting hundreds of babes every night, or getting alcohol spilt down your arm and cleaning puke for 5hrs straight! Lesson number 1: If you're bussing, you're too busy to talk! When the club is packed, the best jobs to be working, from my experience are as follows:
Bartending - Must have very good social skills, and gets job by luck, or training.
Security - Always alert. Can spare time for short convo. Most #'s.
Security Check - Always alert to suspicion, lots of bantering and #'s.
Coat check - Unless it's winter, there's usually not much else to do.
ID Check/Admission - Quick flirts and casual numbers.
Busser - Sh*t all..alc spilt down arm. bad back. casual B.J.
In the end, working in a club will give you more status everywhere you go!


Coffee shops.. great relaxed environment to high-energy conversation. It is an attractive place to go for more than just one type of woman.. If working at starbucks, however, you probably won't get a chance for conversation until it really slows down. An alternative to a slow-paced coffee shop would be a slow-paced bar.. you get to work with less noise too!

The list only goes on..however, the true genius to getting the most women is to FIRST identify your interests (hobbies, media, education..), then brainstorm jobs that might even have a little relevance to each interest you wrote down, and last, after finding out which jobs will teach you the most skill, you should evaluate whether you are really wanting a second job, or if you're just looking for an excuse to hit on women. At the very least, you'd be finding women attracted to your interests at your job!
Just keep in mind that you're not getting paid to Pick Up. There are thousands of more things that you could practice in half the speed you would at another job. All you'd is lack the same influence you receive over customers by working.

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The restaurant thing is so true, although things can (and often do) get awkward when half the staff are all sleeping w each other, breaking up, etc.

I just want to add that I think the whole museum thing as a day game option is actually a load of shit. Most people in museums are tourists who don't speak english, are 45, unattractive, and with their spouses. Why spend hours finding the few hot art students when you can do night game and do like 20-30 approaches over a few hours and DHV and build your social circle by ending up knowing a lot of people in the club?

I think it depends of the museum... I think the Louvre in Paris is a great example where you can fin a lot of HB tourists... (and also old people obviously). Going there this afternoon.

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Umm yeah blondguy is not on the same planet as us. The payoff value of chasing a few hot artists is also significantly greater when you're an artist yourself. Also most major cities have a monthly Artwalk where everyone goes to the galleries in the art district at the same time. My main problem with "art game" is I place a very high priority on actually seeing all the art.

i actually heard gay bars as a bartender. the women are usually with their gay friend.