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There's nothing wrong with getting a girl to buy you a drink (that's one of my goals when I go out tomorrow night just to improve my game) but the way that you go about doing it says a lot about who you are. I just think that this method is very forceful and leaves this feeling like being used, or forced into something you don't want to truly do (from the girl's perspective). When you do it, you want to make her WANT to buy you that drink, so that she feels honored and special because she got to buy you a drink (that's how AFCs feel when a girl gets him to buy a drink typically). You want to reverse the situation, so you are assuming the typical girl role and she is the AFC and she goes, "Great, if I buy him a drink, he's going to like me more and I'll get to keep hanging out with him!"
This isn't about short term goals like getting a girl to get you a drink, this is about setting up a good solid foundation of her being unable to resist you and wanting to do anything she can to keep your attention. My goal is to turn the girl into the AFC of the situation.
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this is what I was not able to say in text.
after rereading my original post, I can see how the 'conversation' does have a somewhat forceful, almost negative tone to it.
whenever I have used this, the conversation and words I use are character & personality specific to the woman I am gaming. NOTHING I typed in the original post is exactly what is or should be said, just basic general guidelines.
This whole thing is in fact: the Anticipation Reversal
ha
The thing is, if you can't properly form your thoughts on here, when you have as much time as you need to get it worded right, I have my doubts that you are able to pull it off any better when you have to do it all on the spot in a club with the pressure of a hot girl there. My online game is far superior to my game in real life, because I often get my thougths all jumbled and try to say two things at once, but online I can delete and fix things if it doesn't come out just right.
CHAT