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its my first relationship so iam not really experienced in them and wanted to hear opinion of someone who is more experienced in them

I was mostly trying to reiterate or restate the idea that mind games (or "acting") do not exist in quality relationships. Playing the mind games that some of the previous posters have suggested will certainly create an exciting relationship (but it is not the kind of excitement you want, because it is unpredictable and unsustainable).
Mind games are good fun in pick-up.
Mind games are confusing in relationships.
Good luck!