SHORT STORY QUICK:every girl ive ever gotten has been with the help of a wingman or if shes alone. Now i want this girl but 75% of te time i see her shes wid a girl friend

ok, so today I had the last straw

Theres this one girl I decided to get.
I've already qualifed to her, she knows im smart(had classes with me),athletic(saw me play soccer,work out),etc
and she always engages convo with me first, afterschool iwent to my locker,like 10 lockers across from hers I saw her alone getting her sweater and told my self to step my game up. I aproached with an opener "hey me and my friend.....is lilac named after a flower or is the flower named after the color" she giggled thought bout it and we started talkin 5 mins later her friend walks up to her, and said hey to her(didnt aknowledge me) at the same time the second girl walked up to her my phone rang and i picked up and told the two of them i had to go and said bye to them.

To make it worse i only have one class with her-wich she has with her close cousin or somethin
and the off periods we got together has like 2 or 3 of her friends

any ideas on how to solve this?

New to this, but from what I've seen, next time you are in a situation where she is talking to her friends you should approach her with confidence, but involve them in your conversation.

The one I've seen work well is "So are you gonna introduce me to your friend(s)? That's the polite thing to do.", after she introduces you do a subtle neg about the target to her friends like "so is she always this rude?" with a smile or something.

If you then talk to everyone in the set with more emphasis on her friends than her (esp if you neg her along the way), it should make her crave your attention. Make sure you follow up your negs with stuff like "haha I'm just kidding, you're not half bad" etc.

Main thing I got from MM in this subject is not to wait for the target to be alone, but to approach the whole set with confidence and use it to your advantage.

New as well, but i agree with the above poster.

If your 1on1 and a friend comes up and she doesnt introduce, neg her "Hey why dont you introduce me to your friend, that would be the polite thing to do." then say something to her friend like, "You can dress her up but you cant take her anywhere." Smile, joking tone.

Or if you have to goto her when shes with friends you could do something like

YOU to obsticle: "Hi! im ____. (targets name) has told me so much about you!"

obsticle:" O really?"

YOU: "Actually she didnt even introduce us, so i figured id be polite for her and introduce myself" (smile at her quick glance to the target)

Then just run game and kinda focus more on the obsticle then the target. The idea is to get in good with the friends, try cold reading a friend on the spot.

In any case im new just my opinion hope it helps

next time your in convo and the friend interupts and doesnt acknowledge you, treat it the same as like a silent AMOG. they wont devalue you openly, but they give you no respect or time of day. when it happens again, just interupt them talking and introduce yourself to the friend, and then get involved with the convo. dont stay for the whole thing, say that you have to go for this or that, but get her number so you can finish talking later, than leave. easy as pie.

good luck,

PB