Hi all, met a awesome looking girl on a dating site and she accepted me (have to accept person first if interested)

hee profile reads:-

hey there, im Naomi, im from not so sunny scunthorpe
this is my first time doing this so be gentle with me.. im a fun, out-going, bubbly, loud, love to laugh kinda girl.. if u cant take a bit of banter im not the one for u, im straight up honest, i have my opinions on everything the same as everyone does, but dont judge me coz they might not match urs...
im looking for a nice, normal, genuine guy im fed up with time wasters... im not just looking for sex or a fling or romantic encounter.. and no married guys either please!! oooh and no pic then dont even bother coz lets face it everyone can get a pic from somewhere of themselves!! i have a 5yr old little boy Aidan who is my entire world,oh and a boxer puppy called Charlie
ok i like shopping, cinema, bowling, reading, ice skating, getting drunk, dancing, singing loud,meals out/in, kissing, flirting,clubs, pubs, u know the usual really, anyway if u like the sound of me please get in touch!!

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So i wrote to her and received following, she hasnt replied now although was sent 1pm 25/2/2011, she has since been online, i think i might have messed up, can anyone give me some tips or help with writing to her again say after the weekend? What sort of things should i talk about what should i ask her?, i am pretty new at this but have read few PUSa books, thanks in advance guys

have i messed up by saying too much too soon proper like the look of this girl and also like her profile

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Me says:
Hi, Naomi. How are you? Hope you are having a good day so far? Are you upto much this weekend and plans? I'm going to be quite busy myself and have to work nights this weekend what sort of music do you mainly listen or dance to? Chris x
Naomi85 says:
hey hun... have a quiet weekend planned i have my son this week so no partying for me.. i love music and dancing and partying lol
Naomi85 says:
mainly listen to r "n"b... but to be honest i listen to anything aslong as it isnt to heavy xxx
Me says:
I can listen to anything dance wise, favorties are old skool 90s - absolute classics also like classic trance and r&b stuff like Mario Winans, Blackstreet etc i have been producing music for last 4 yrs. Gotta love dancing, music and partying where about are you from Natalie? What other things do you enjoy doing in your spare time? Chris xx
Me says:
oh nice to meet you by the way Naomi - Chris xx

Your boring. Tease her, DHV, flirt a little. Also don't care so much, don't reply so fast to her, also definitely don't think to much about her "last online" shit that doesn't mean ANYTHING at all. Girls can be super interested but just not know what to say next so they wait and think. Don't message her for at least a few weeks if she doesn't message you.

ah nice one mate

Can you give me some pointers of what to write when i do write ie opening sentences after seeing the above information about what she likes and what shes said etc, so it can give me some ideas not just for this one but for future?


Thanks again

if you write her back, pretend like you forgot about her, or don't remember her, and pretend she's a brand new girl and start again with a new opener.

thanks pleasureseeker, i'll do just that...

Can you give me some pointers on what to write next time for when i do the new message? as i dunno where to start! As that would be a massive help to me if you could provide some pointers so that i can fine tune them for future use, what sort of things shall i put into the new message, thanks again mate

You also have to consider that online dating is a brutal numbers game. Girls sometimes get up to 100+ messages a day from different guys, so it easily happendas that they simply forget about you, or your last message is burried on page #57 in their inbox etc.

So DON'T get too much into a single girl, talk with many at the same time, and be prepared that you might loose many of them due to various reasons.

So I'd contact her again in 1-2 weeks and pretend as if nothing happend...

Granted, I'm new to all of this, but, if I got this right.. her name is Naomi. And in your message, at one point you called her Natalie? Possibly a boo-boo?

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Hey krunchie, wow just noticed your from scunthorpe, thats a first. i'm a pua in scunthorpe, we should meet up for some day game/nightgame.

Next email you send her call her Diana on purpose lol If she ask you why you called her Diana , say oops there was this girl diana that was trying to talk to me and I got you girls mixed up lol

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This issue has been dormant for quite sometime.

I'd suggest you reading the rules against bumping up old topics.

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