Ok about 3 or 4 weeks ago I went downtown to several bars and had a great time. The last bar I was at, I made eye contact with this cute girl and I chatted it up. She was a little drunk as was I. The bar started closing about 15 minutes later so she grabbed my phone and put her number in it and gave me a nice long kiss and we parted ways. I was surprised by this one since no girl has ever done that to me

I sent her a text the next morning and she didn't remember who I was . She then started to remember and she added me on facebook. We sent lots of texts throughout that day mostly about how that night went. I found out she was from out of town and visits friends where I live every so often. I then stopped texting her for a bit.

The next week around Valentine's day I sent a text to all of the girls on my phone saying happy Valentine's day. All responded but her, I sent an IM on facebook last friday night saying "hey, what kinda trouble are you causing" or something similar and she never replied.

Facebook IM is very unreliable.

I am just wondering, how can I re-kindle things with this girl and spark attraction? It's been a few weeks so basically I have to start over.

I have other options and she's not a big deal but I just want to see this as a challenge, what's a good text to send?

I've called girls out of the blue in the past and usually they don't pick up if they don't remember who's number it is ect.

What should I do?

The deal is she may not have the same interest level with you or she may have found someone else. The trick is to hang in there. Try a funny text that is low investment. if she doesn't respond wait for a few weeks and send one more...persitence is the key.

Yeah it's obvious her interest level is low, that's why I'm trying to raise it over time. I was thinking something like this:

Me: "I just made you open your phone for no reason...looks like I got you in check "

or

Me: "I miss you and wanna see you, but this dumb security guard won't let me in the zoo. Is there any way you can escape?"

Any advice?

I'm gonna try the first one out tomorrow and if I don't hear back I'll try the second one in 2 weeks.

I just made you open your phone for no reason...looks like I got you in check --> I am not too impressed because I find them annoying even if a girl does that to me...

I miss you and wanna see you, but this dumb security guard won't let me in the zoo. Is there any way you can escape? -> i like...this has been used before..but a good choice...

Is there any humor that you both emotionally connected on?. That would be most effective IMO. Personally I wouldn't try something that is easily available on internet or a well known line...the goal is to send something light hearted and makes her laugh. Sending mass texts is also a good idea. Like "Kev's birthday => Party at XXXX, swim suites = optional, DO NOT forget the arm floaters " (courtesy braddock)

She will not be able to make it there. But she will mentally associate you with that cool place.

~P

dude, obviously shes not interested, stop wasting and on to the next one. I'm sure you'll find other girls out there just as hot or shit even hotter.

PS: girls you meet who are usually drunk will forget who you are the next day so persist on and try to fuck that night. if not there's a slight chance she will forget.

you guys kissed for a long time after 15 minutes? it's possible she's just trying not to feel like a slut... unless she is an actual slut and madeout with 10+ guys that night, she would for sure remember you. She might think she moved to fast with you and that your expecting to hit and quit.... If you like her be persistent, that's probably what she wants. If girls feel you got them tooooo easy, that anti slut defense or shield of w/e you call it revs up. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you, you just have to show her your willing to be a part of her life not just part of her vag.