Ever so often,I'd reconnect with a chick I used to lay[be it months prior].

They always seem to hit me with the following same lines whenever I'd bring up sex:

1)"I dont do that any more[let's say I'd broght up anal ex that we did before]".

2)Im a Christian now

3)Im looking for something better than just sex

4)I've changed my life.

Those are typically the 4 reponses I get from women I used to bang.

Not all but about 65%.

I know it's ASD at work here and the girl trying to validate themselves somehow.

But it's total BS and I laugh at it!

Those chiccs make it seem like it's a crime or sin punishable by death to have had anal sex or given a friggin' blow job!

It kills me when they try detaching themselves from their prior slutty ways(according to their minds)by telling me they dont give blow jobs any more.

As if bj's are an abomination.

I mean,we men dont go through this mental fuckery.

So it kills me when guys on the forum would say that women arent different than men when it come to plausible deniability & inner stuff.

But ever so often,I'd reconnect(via phone)with a past lay who's now telling me she's a changed woman and she's fount God or Allah thus she doesnt have 3 somes any more.

Yet she's still banging few guys currently and probably giving them bj's.

But she still wants to convince me that atleast with me-she's changed.

Women are so irrational(lol).

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Prirme example of the above:

About a year and a half ago,I met a girl onlie(HB9).

We had a 3 some(she got banged by me and a male friend-so 2 guys 1 girl).

She loved it,claimed it was her first.

We spoke about it weeks and months afterwards and she loved it!!

Somehow,I broke off communication with her[looking to game on].

I got bored and decided to give her a call like 4-5 months after.

All of a sudden,she's this changed girl(lol)-Mother Teresa reborn.

After a while in the chat,I brought u the 3 some of about 6 months prior.

She hits me with,"I dont do those thing anymore".

Then I mentioned anal sex(which she's loved),then she said,"Im not into that now,I've changed my life".

That is pure mind-fuckery!!

That is women for you.

I wonder if Im the only one who's noticed this trend in women.

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You don't understand something extremely important about how women.

Her sexual emotional state is completely separate from all of her other emotional state for vast majority of women. Cultural/Social programming and whatnot. It's not that there's something wrong with her, there's something wrong with the society she has to deal with on a day-to-day basis.

You CAN have the wild sex you want with women and do it again and again and again UNLESS you bring up what she has done when she's in a different emotional state.

When you call a girl and start talking about (random example) how SHE was in a threesome and enjoyed it and you want to do it again, you're completely shoving responsibility on her and making her responsible for doing it again (from her perspective). She'll do the sorts of things you mentioned.

Almost all women will completely shut down on you when you do this sort of thing. There are lots of reasons but the double standard is a big part of it.

I don't talk with a woman about sexual stuff we have done, even if she brings it up. If she says the next morning "i feel dirty" or whatever after a wild kinky night, I just say "lets get some breakfast" or something else completely normal and on a different subject. It's not a big deal to me so it's not a big deal to her.

ANYTHING YOU MAKE A BIG DEAL ABOUT WITH A WOMAN WILL BE A BIG DEAL TO HER AND SHE'LL USUALLY SHUT DOWN.

Also, women (most) are VERY sensitive about their sexual activities being talked about. If she sees you like to talk about them she'll be wondering who else you are talking to about them.

A funny example though recently....i'll tease once in a while. A girl I dated and had wild sex with met a doctor and they were getting married in a few weeks. He was babbling about what an angel she is and glad to be with a nice girl who hadn't dated much. I popped off with "yeah, that's not the kind of girl who would have sex with a guy behind a dumpster, you got a good one!" and she glared at me for a second because, yeah, we had sex behind a dumpster once.

I would NOT have even remotely thought of being a subtle comedian if we were ever going to get hooked up again. That would have been completely stupid on my part if I wanted to get with her in the future. She knew it was a joke that no one would possibly get but it still would make her shift towards "no" in the future.

Virtually all women I've had wild sex with over a period of time would do it again with me because:

#1 I don't discuss it in any kind of detail when not having it.
#2 I don't brag to friends, it's her and my secret, guys tease me about not having sexual exploits to talk about...the ones getting the most talk the least.
#3 No judgments, no questions about her sexual history and I refuse to get sucked into talk about it.
#4 No pressure to hook up and do any specific sex acts, just "hey, let's hang out and have a good time" type stuff. I don't make her ever feel she's obligated to "perform" for me.
#5 I take responsibility for EVERYTHING. I don't say "hey, can I stick it in your butt" because it's on her then and she'll often feel that she's a dirty whore if she tells me OK....I just do it and if she freezes up I switch to something else without comment. A couple of nights together later I'll do it again and if the reaction is less strong, IT'S ON and I'll back off and switch to something else again knowing that the next time it's going to happen. Everything is MY FAULT and she can wander around during the day playing the role of a Nice Girl who has a dirty and exciting secret!

@Yea Im all that-You're 100% correct on your post.

I agree with you all the way.

Every woman,no matter how slutty,will shy away from the topic of past-sexual acts.

I knew this but I was so annoyed by it that I kept doing it with every past lay to see if they'd react differently.

Double standards in society definitely drives this as you'd said.

I do everything from 1-5 that you do.

But if Im just bored and dont give a crap,I'd call a girl who I hadnt spoken to in months then steer the convo to sex,knowing that she'll hit me with some deniability stuff.

Thanks for the great insights Yea,Im all that.

I guess you're the only other guy on the forum aware of this stuff.

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thats women for ya... never listen to a thing they say (when you dectect these types of patterns at least).

i dis-agree with the guy 2 posts above me..... its not just sociaty pressureing her.... women need to take some responsibility for the mind games they play..

after wall, we know,, that a women always wants the man to take responisbility for almost everything,, she her self cant handle it..

i dont think this is mearly social conditioning (the fear of being seen as a slut)

yes, social conditioning, has a large part to do with it..... but its always the females crazy mind that makes her do this...

i agree with the original poster...... the way women deny reality, is pethetic.... and if it is ONLY, social conditioning,,, it is still pethetic.....

thank god us men, have figured out there little mind games


i know this girl who LOVES, to give B.J's..... but once, i was experimenting with her.... and she actualy said to be " i dont give BJ's"..... LOL!!!

the same girl,, who told me,, "i dont know why girls complian about giving B.J's... more pleasure for your partner right?"........... tryed to tell me, a month later,, "i dont give B.J's.".... ya right... i guess this girl cant keep track of who she lie's to , and plays mind games with.

this is not just social conditioniing..... this is an example, of sheep like behavour....... this is not just social pressure,, this is women playing mind game's...its evolutionary...... it points to how crazy women are,, and how they often cant accept responisbility..... to me, its pethetic that they try these same games,, over and over.

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if men how it our way,, we would be dirrect with women.... " i ,, i like you,,, do you like me?.... well, lets go out,, we should start dating"......... sadly, women want to make things complicated,, so they can get there "emotion fix".. or emotional charge".... it is disturbing.

this is not just social pressure,, this is why men need to be the ones in charge... women just cant deal with reality... they are too much like sheep (yes i know men can be also).... but women,, much more so

@Ripemapart-Lol,you're spot on with your insightful post bro'.

Great post and good points.

Women play so much mind games that it's pathetic and laughable now.

It's beyond social conditioning like you said.

I merely wrote this post to point out how irrational women are.

And as you said Rippemapart,you cannot trust what women say in general context.

The chiccs who tell me that they no longer give head nor have anal sex because they've fount Jesus,are most likely still getting anal banged by some bad boy.

Lol,I have to laugh when you said that some girl told you she doesnt go down,when you know that she loves going down(lol)!!

Women are so shame to admit doing now normal -shit like blowjobs.

Anyway,good post Rippemapart.

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