I don't write LRs but this has alot of really good information.
I was at a bar last night were some bands were playing, it was a mix of seeing a friend away (shes taking a year out to travel) and watching her brothers band play, so we were there first and then back to there house for an all nighter after party.
5 of her girl friends had come up to party with her, so theres me, my friends, her and her best friend, her family, the 5 girls and loads of other people I know, most of the night was spent in the smoking area.
I arrive at the bar and straight away go to the smoking area, I see my friend and I go over to say hello, she introduces me to all her girlfriends.
so I talk a little (hows your night type stuff) and then go back to my friends.
the game begins!
some of the 5 girls are sitting round a table so I walk up to them a say I'm stealing the chair and ask fo a cigarette, I don't even smoke and I say the usual "god I gotta give these up" crap and sit down beside them, I start talking "so how do you know ((my friend))" and also ask them are they going back to the party and where they are staying
they're staying at my friends house so logistics is sorted
they tell me their story and we start talking about travel, places we've been, stories about that etc
I play the age game "what age r you guys" I guess younger than they arer they love it, "oh I'll take 23" they do the same to me
I have to burp (not really loud just a little vodka and coke one) I say to her "ops windy pops" the girl with the fringe tells me I remind her of her ex, shes telling me two things here
1. I'm her type
2. Shes single
I start to frame her as sexually aggressive, I do this when I'm talking about travel, I bring up that I was living in spain for a while so I start talking about how I like the way spanish girls are, how they go for what they want and how they are very aggressive and full on when it comes to relationships, she agrees, this frame comes out really heavy later
I get up and go to the toilet I think, can't realy remember but I didn't eject, I knew these girls would be about all night so there is no rush
I go back about 15 minutes later but the girl with the fringe is away, instead her friend is sitting there she has knee high boots, two things that leave me not being able to say no, sexy little girls with fringes and sexy chicks that wear knee high boots!
start again "so how do you know............" more travel talk, but this chick goes deep, and seriously talks my ear off!
subjects we talk about are
travel
art and artists (im an artist) I show her one of my paintings and her jaw drops
dynamics between men and women, its bad the way girls get called sluts if they sleep around type stuff, men and women double standards its not fair on women blah blah I tell her women are way more sexual than men, she agrees

I'm showing I have no judgement on girls that have sex, another frame
peoples perspctive on life when we have been away and how it sucks when you come back to normal boring life and how some people just dont get it
work (what we do)
relationships (what I like and how I don't get people that get tied down really quick) I say about my friends having kids
places we went out in different cities, clubs etc storys that happened us, and language talk (spanish)
think i talked a little about my nephew being a madman, hes 3. I do this type of thing strategically, I got it from something captain jack said about his heart melters, what it is, is if i have a member of my family that fits into a conversation or a friend I'll mention them, I call it name dropping, mostly I mention my nephew cause of the whole "awe" aspect, but what it does is let them know your identy and it makes them feel they know u a little better, I'm no longer just a guy that is htting on them, I'm Ram and I have a little nephew who I play with and my mum does this and my dad does that... you get the idea im sure
the chick with th fringe comes back, I can feel the jealousy in the air! nice! I talk about how hard it is to get a drink in the bar we are in the chick with the fringe offers to go get me a drink to prove how fast sh can get served, lol she comes back 20 minutes later with a double vodka for me

)) I tease her about taking so long (me and the girl with the knee high boots had timed her on the tmewatch o my phone) I get up after a few more minutes of conversation, the friends are starting to bitch about each other, I make a point say thank you to the girl with the fringe for going an gettting the drink because I jus teased her when she came back
most of the time in between talking to these girls im moving from group to group talkin to other people I know, oh an just a note my kino is just normal arm touches I think at one stage I told fringe girl I liked her hair and a sort of brushed it, I am laying SOI's but they are inuendo type, I can't rmember wht I said because its was situational but tthe chick with the knee high boots got it, I think I told her her boots where sexy too at one stage but not sure, but mostly my SOI's are just telling them things like "I like the way you ave your hair, its kinda sexy"
so by this time I have serouis jealousy/pre selection and now the bar is closing, I'm sitting talking ar stuff with knee high boots girl and she says she has a really interesting question to ask me,its about art but their taxis are here, so I say I'l tal to you's back at the house.
get back to the party about 30 minutes later, I pary for a bit, talk to knee high boots again, she cant remember her question so I neg the fuck out of her, lol just kidding, its no biggy we just laugh about it and talk on, I see fringe giving me the eyes and she imposes her self and says do yo want a drink, she goes behind in house bar and starts acting out really sexual and she pours my drink, shes sticking heer ass out and being all like "ops" and teasing, the sexually aggressive frame is well set, I go back an forth between her and her friend till I pull knee high boots into the hall and kiss her
I go back in again going back and forth talking crap, then go upstair to go to the toilet and I see fringe, I make my move on her too, result. even thou she says sh cant cause I'll all into her friend, I just say I just being friendly, her tocken resistanse fails, everyone is starting to wind down and go to bed, fringe is hanging about and we end up being the only two still up, I go to the couch in the back room to sleep and she joins me
we actually go to sleep but when I wake up in the morning early no ones arond and we have sex on the couch, but shes not down because shes scared someone will walk in on us, so she suggests the toilet, I take her hand a and go to the toilet, her clothes is of like a shot but poor me I'm so hung over sex isnt happening this time, so I just get her off, we go back to the couch, try to sleep talk about food (what we love to eat) resturants etc. I take her number, I also tll her I kissed her friend shes not that annoyed.
we lay around kissing eeettccc for about an other hour until she wants to go to bed, so I let her and I go into the living room where my friends are before I get a lift home.
thats all i can remember, any questions mesage me up, I'll be happy to answer
(ps forgive the grammer and spelling mistakes, I am still hung over big time and I can't be bother editing anymore)