Hey fellas, Ive been with my GF for about 4 years and im thinking about calling it quits. Im 23 and right now i just have too much going on in my life. I have a part time job, an internship and i go to school....plus i play soccer lol. Ive never been this busy ever and i just feel that all this is overwhelming right now. I hardly see her, i just see her maybe 1 or 2 days of the week and when i see her all im thinking about is being in bed sleeping haha. Anyway i guess my question is, how should I go about breaking up....I mean i love this girl but right now i have too much shit going on to keep her a priority. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks guys!!!

Man this is a decision that I think you need to make for yourself.

It's tough cause I've been there before. You will have regrets no matter what you decide to do. That's the shitty part. Evaluate ALL your options before you make a decision

Awesome! Thanks for the replies guys! Yea its exactly the way Hobbit stated it...I am not fully commited to the relationship right nwo because of my other commitments.....I feel bad though but i guess its never easy breaking up :/

Yep, break up. It's not just your other commitments, it's your lack of priority for her, which says how you actually feel about her. You may say you love her, but you're clearly tired of being in a relationship with her.

let us know how it goes if you get the chance.

I agree with bvanevery, it sounds like you are just tired of being in a relationship with her. A good relationship is something like a vacation from all of your other responsibilities. You look forward to the few moments you get to see the person you're with. If you are to the point where you are bored being around her and want to sleep, it is time to move on. I would break it to her gently and just let her know you have too much going on to have a healthy relationship and she deserves more than you can give her right now. If she cares, she will cry and ask you to stay, but stick to your guns.