So I have been playing around with online dating, really busy so I don't have enough time to go out and pick up girls. I'm pretty happy with how its going. Been using Jsmooths Direct Date method and its working.


But I am a little confused on what to do when a girl sends me a message. Now I have been kinda ignoring them since me sending the first message has been working so good.

So I went on OKCUPID today and got a message from a HB9.

HER: Wink. hey handsome! Feb 17, 2011 – 8:34pm

Do I just send basicly the same message I have been or do you play it diffrently when being approached.

Thanks for the compliment. You seem like a cool person, and your pretty cute too. Maybe we'll meet up for coffee or drinks sometime, hopefully your fun so we can have a good time.- I ended up sending this I'll see if it works.

Did it work? Sometimes it backfires if you are too forward. Some girls might take it that you only are interested sex when they are trying to find a relationship ect.

OK my mission is to eradicate the word 'Cute' from the P.U.A vocabulary. Its overused , try 'attractive, refreshing, captivating anything except cute.

Safe bet is to comment on the profile and not her looks but You an get away with all sorts if you do it right.

Thanks for the compliment. After reading your profile you seem like a laugh. I could be TOTALLY wrong though.

Here's a question If I asked you're friends to describe you, what would they say?
(This gets her qualifying herself to you and gives her something to respond with. She'll usually say what about you and then you get to demonstrate how awesome you are.)



I send at least 3 messages demonstrating my humour and build comfort before suggesting any kind of meet-up