Basically, when I'm in a set/working a room/messing with friends I have a blast with negging girls. My question is, should negging be dripping with flirtation or should it be straight up mean? I know negging is supposed to be the "temporary disqualification of being a potential suiter" but is it in a blatant way or a flirty way?

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Negging should be gentle, not flirtatious and done with a straight face. It should be a gentle faux pas. I heard one, I think from Mystery, that goes like this:

A HB has obviously fake nails but they look nice.

YOU: Nice nails! Are they real?
HB: No they're false.
YOU: (Slightly disappointed) Oh. Well, they look nice anyway.

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thats disqualification theory.

And negging is to be done with a smile and in a playful manner. example "you talk a lot.... do you have an off button."

It is basically to show that you are not interested which in turn will make her start trying to win you over.

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so, it is a mix? I love doing the playful ones... and the girls love it too (as in every girl present, they laugh at their friend, and the friend laughs) but I don't do the gentle disqualifications though. I'll work on that.

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Neg != insult


there is a difference

The Neg is short for "Negative" and it's a mixture of both 50/50. it is a powerfull tool, and it loses it's power if it's 40/60 or 20/80 the magic happens at 50/50 You MUST be Sincere!

David Deangello talks heavilly on this- he calls it "Cocky-Funny"
but the Ultimate Purpose of a "Neg" is to DISQUALIFY yourself as a potential Suitor. a PROPER neg is only used after you recieve an "IOD" (Indicator of Disinterest) for many reasons mostly due to, too much interest being communicated. after this is done you "DHV" (Display Higher Value) and then Check her Complience. wich most of the time is an "IOI" (Indicator Of Interest) on your part. if she complies you are continously building her up to attraction.

My Point is that AFTER the "Attraction" stage... a Proper "Neg" is not needed! and will actually bring her attraction DOWN!

At this point you turn the Cocky DOWN and the Funny UP. in your case "Driping flirtation" is your "Funny"

"The Game Is Played In Comfort"

**In the Attraction Stage**

you will notice a Pattern

MAN- Aproach Woman tell story (IOI)
WOMAN- Shit Test (IOD)
MAN- C & F Statement (NEG)
MAN- Communicates Higher Survival and Replicative Value (DHV)
Woman- Re-Initiates Conversation (IOI) <---- once this is done SHE WILL Comply...If Every minor detail is done properly.


If at anytime she gives you an "IOD" thats ONLY when you use a proper "Neg" otherwise it isnt a "Neg"-attive... at all

Hope that helps

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haha WRONG

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How is that wrong?

I don't think many people realize "!=" mean's "does not equal."

I'm trying to remember, is that C++?