When we broke up things wasnt clear, we still had feelings for eachother but she said, that she had given too much oportunity and ive wasted all of them. But she didnt broke up contact, one day we even hookup. But I had to leave for one week, first two days she called me like we are dating, but after the talk I understood that we werent in a relantioship, so I give her the silence SPAM until 4 days later she calls me. So we mantain minimum contact. When I got back in town she didnt want to see me she was dodging me. So on Valentine Days I went to her house and suprise her but I was the one who got suprised because she wasnt home so I was like Wtf ? but then something weird happen when she sees me infront of her she starts crying and telling me she missed me. but I had to go because being with me, does bad to her while hugging me. I was stun with that atitude, because she was being a bitch when we talk on phone, but when Im infront of her she starts crying weird right? The problem begins now I asked where she was when I called her she told me she was at a guy friend house. So I went to her room and we starting talking I was pissed as hell, asking what the hell was she doing in guy house, She said she went to straight things with him because saturday they went out and he tried to kissed her but she refused but she didnt want to lose his friendship because she has very few friends in this new city and she needs company. But my girl is alone vulnerable and this guy is going to continue charging her, and she knows this but continues being alone with him. When I ask her if she sees something happen she doesnt close the door for that option, but she still said that she loves me but she wont give me more oportunites but I have something that she cant explain but draws to me, but I should be more like the "gay" friend. At that point I receive a txt from a girl at 2pm, she starts crying asking to see the txt and if im seeing someone.

So this is lost case right?? That guy is going to be the rebound..for sure. Any tips sugestion?

My apologies in advance, but I need to bash you over the head with the 'dumb stick'.

She said, that she had given too much oportunity and ive wasted all of them. What? Who the f*ck is she? This girl (like all women) act like she is some GRAND prize you have to work for. Her delusion is unprecedented.

After the talk I understood that we werent in a relantioship. This is you handing over your balls and spine. This is the quickest way to loose your girl's respect.

When I got back in town she didnt want to see me she was dodging me.
She was being a bitch when we talk on phone, but when Im infront of her she starts crying weird right?
She refused but she didnt want to lose his friendship because she has very few friends in this new city and she needs company.
But my girl is alone vulnerable and this guy is going to continue charging her, and she knows this but continues being alone with him.
She still said that she loves me but she wont give me more oportunites but I have something that she cant explain but draws to me.
I receive a txt from a girl at 2pm, she starts crying asking to see the txt and if im seeing someone.

This is the type of girl that is only happy when she is crying or when her world is in turmoil. If you want to keep this girl around, treat her like sh*t, then tell her you love her, then treat her like sh*t, then tell her you love her again. Granted, all women love a little drama in their lives, but this girl takes it to a whole new level. I can give you advice on how to rock this type of girls world in the bedroom, but you have to be at least 18 years old for that type of advice.

My suggestion, haul a$$ and don't look back...unless you enjoy the misery.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

^ Agreed.

If you must, tell her that it doesn't sound like she knows what she wants, but that she can call you when she figures it out. Then bail.

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Guess you are right sinfull but I really like this girl, and she being a drama queen doesnt make her boring for the contrary all my other girlfriends were boring this one is not. So any tips ignore for now??

I don't think you like 'her', you like the drama, uncertainty and challenge she gives you. This is why you don't find her boring. But, trust me, this is NOT the type of excitement you want to deal with long term. What you need is healthy excitement, this is emotional baggage you will end up regretting later. Besides, you should be the one providing HER with drama, uncertainty and challenge...not the other way around.

If you have decided to stick with this girl, I can't help you Andrew. That would be like sticking your hand into the fire even though you know it will burn. Maybe someone else can provide you with some incite. Good luck man.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

fucking hell what are you waisting your time with that kind of fucked up girls anyway???

Get rid of her.

How old is she ? 18 ?