I got a phonecall from a friend today and he gave me the inside story about the gang issue.

Apparently this ex of her's (we'll name him D). Told P that he got beaten up by a group of people, and they told him to stay away from P as someone else was going after her(which is presumes is me).

Somehow somewhere, my name got into the picture although i have never met D nor have i spoke to him before.

I'm guessing he's pulling a cheapshot by coming out with a story just to get her back as what i know from P and her friends is that he always lies and his lies are full of loopholes.

I'm trying to clear my name now and make that low down SOB feel so beta that he loses P as a friend too.

With all these info, is there a way i can turn the tables? currently if u look at it this way, he has most of the advantage..


p.s i doubt anyone saw him getting beaten up, nor did he suffer any injuries.


Thanks!!

anyone can give some inputs?

At some point you may find that this is more trouble than it is worth.

It appears that you picked up a girl who was rebounding, and to make matters more complicated, her ex was rebounding, too. You can try to stick it out, but you won't do yourself any favors by "making that SOB feel so beta," especially if everyone knows he is an accomplished liar.

Do not get sucked into this histrionic vortex of post-breakup drama. Do not "get even." Simply ignore all this other stuff that is going on.

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I have decided to freeze out this girl..
i encountered a problem. how do u re-approach a girl u freeze out? and how long would be good?

Can you give more details?

Also, why do you want to reinitiate contact? This sounded like a bad situation for you...

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reinitiate contact to her a fuck buddy. so why not? one more is never a problem.