I'mma put this briefly...

I met a taken girl for a drink a week or so ago. We'd met before and been intimate and slept together etc but it was over a year ago and we decided to meet as a kinda spur of the moment thing.

She still had a boyfriend but at the end of the night we kissed twice and she later text me she doesn't normally do that but because I made her so happy it felt right. I told her it was a sign of things to come.

We met again tonight and she'd split with her boyfriend for good before she asked to see me. We went out, had some fun, enjoyed each others company, kissed again etc. And it all seemed well and good.

In the car on the way home, she said "I've been in and out relationships since I was 13, I'm definitely not rushing and taking my time this time, which annoyed me a little as I now have no idea where I'm standing.

Is this going anywhere? Should I carry on seeing her? If so how should I be acting, I see her as probably one of the only girls I'd go out with. She's awesome.

Help is greatly appreciated.

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Pickup Truck

"If it can be dreamed, it can be done"

Might be she is stating this becuase she doesn't want to come over as slutty, and wants to play it hard to get...

Why did it annoy you? Don't try to box someone in. Just take it as it comes. Don't put too much pressure on any particular outcome. Maintain a laissez-faire attitude about it; be the fun guy who brings value to the interaction, without NEEDING a relationship out of it. In time, you can go for a manogamous commitment, but for now be easy to be around and don't be afraid to escalate.

Note: If she is rebounding, you're unlikely to maintain a long-term relationship. Rebounds are a slippery slope. Then again, there isn't much you can do in such a scenario. You'll find out soon enough whether this is the case. Either way, your best shot is to be casual, carefree and fun.

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- Lux et Veritas -

Exactly my thoughts...and when I read your title, I thought the same as well...Rebound!

If she is rebounding...all you can do is wait it out and see how she responds to you in the weeks to come.

How do you act...Normal, calm and not needy.
Take it day by day and don't pressure her into somethign she says she is not ready for. If you play your cards right, she will want the relationship, you'll see.

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You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, it's no longer a mistake, it's a choice.

I'm taking it as it comes, not chasing, I'm giving her the option to meet me, not trying to force her too. Shes asked to meet whilst in the same club but I declined for other reasons.

But I will see her soon I hope, and perhaps something can begin to develop.

Keep your opinions coming!

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Pickup Truck

"If it can be dreamed, it can be done"

Been four years and you're still chasing the same girl?

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pickup truck. ahh what a clever name. lol. if i was you id go with it. she's been seeing that guy for a year? and you think she's gonna get back with him? god. how sick would you be of a girl if you dated her for a year. go with it man. she's bored with him. thats why she slept with you a year ago. take her and show her the meaning of a good time. just be the higher value party of the relationship and your good.